In Yanzhou, there are not so many rules for marrying a daughter. The banquet was hosted by the man and the woman. Because you are a married woman, six women will see the bride off on the wedding day. You can take good care of these six people. As for the gift of greeting and betrothal, it's not as serious as you think. 30,000-50,000 is fine. Your daughter-in-law had better find out what her family means in advance. Because the two sides are far away and have different customs and habits, it is best for the two families to discuss it in advance.