Personally, I think there should be no bride price. Marriage is a young man's own business. Why do parents have to pay? Even if parents are willing to help when they get married, it is the child's money. What does this have to do with other parents? The ancestors did leave many fine traditions, but this is really not very good. Personally, because there were many children in every family in the past, parents usually did not provide financial support after marriage, so at this time, both sides should strive for more financial support, especially the woman's parents. At this point, the ancestors were right, out of love for their children, but the bride price gradually changed, and everyone knew what it had become. Good family planning. If both parties are only children, who cares about the bride price? When children get married, both parents will scramble to spend money, fearing to spend less. What's more, they are afraid that the other party will spend less than themselves? Besides, children, our marriage is our own business. Don't drag our parents down for this matter. Parents will try their best to help you, but they can't. Don't blame their parents. It is the woman who wants the bride price. If the south is unwilling to give it or can't take it out, it can persuade parents not to. If the bride price problem will actually affect the happiness of marriage in the future, or simply not get married, then I want to ask the woman, what about you? Also asked the woman's parents, are you marrying her daughter or selling her daughter? I'm in love now, I'm a man, and I've talked about the stage where we can discuss marriage, so I began to pay attention to the wedding process and customs, one of which is the bride price, so I have some humble opinions here today. Now let's talk about what I will do in the face of the bride price problem in the future: resolutely don't bride price! Of course, I don't ask my parents for anything, nor do I ask her or his parents for anything. I feel very satisfied. My parents bought me a house as soon as I graduated from college, which helped me a lot. You can't ask for it any more. The conditions in her family are almost the same, so if we get married, her parents will basically not provide any financial help, which I don't care, but if it is a bride price, I will feel very depressed, because I am marrying a wife, not buying a daughter-in-law. Hey, hey, I vaccinated her. I agree with her.
Recently, I came into contact with some problems in this field and found that many people have such problems, so I wrote my own opinions, hoping that everyone can find their own solutions to the problems. After reading a post, the best answer was handled well. She said that she has a younger brother, so the key issue of double hair is the ownership of the bride price. Finally, when the woman's parents are engaged, they will receive a bride price, and then give the bride price money to the young couple, so that the man will definitely have no opinion, hehe.
She is getting married, should the man give her a bride price?
Bride price is one of the wedding procedures in ancient China, also known as bride price, betrothal gift and betrothal money. Since the marriage was concluded in China since ancient times, it has been the custom for the man to give the bride price and dowry to the woman when a preliminary marriage agreement is reached. This kind of bride price and dowry is commonly known as "bride price". The Zhou Dynasty was an era of etiquette. At that time, a complete set of wedding etiquette was gradually formed. There are detailed provisions in the Book of Rites, which combine the whole set of rituals into "six rituals". The "six rites" marriage system established in the Western Zhou Dynasty and followed by successive generations is the source of the custom of "bride price". The "six gifts" are: receiving gifts, asking names, receiving gifts, inviting parties and welcoming relatives. The "receiving gift money" in the Six Rites is the gift money, which is equivalent to the present "bride price". This form of marriage continued until the Republic of China. Generally, it is money or things that the man gives to the woman at the time of marriage.
Bridal gifts are commonly understood, especially the betrothal gifts or cash gifts given by men to women in marriage and love. In today's internet, it also refers to an act of exchanging lottery tickets and blessings, such as sending a few lottery tickets and a vivid blessing to friends, which not only cares for and protects friends, but also conveys the beautiful meaning of hoping friends will get rich. In some places, the custom is called taking the sign, which means success, that is, after giving the bride price, the marriage contract is formally concluded, and it is generally not allowed to go back on our word. If there is remorse, if the woman repents, the bride price will be returned to the man; If the man goes back on his word, the bride price is generally not refunded. In buying and selling marriage, the bride price represents a woman's value, which is directly called the value bride price in some regions and ethnic groups. How much bride price the man's family sends to the woman's family depends on the requirements of the woman's family and the economic situation of the man's family.
Facing the vast rural areas of China, hundreds of thousands of high-priced bride price made the man shout "I can't afford to marry". At the beginning of May this year, * * * in Qingyang City, Gansu Province clearly stipulated that * * * was a high-priced bride price, and refused to make a big wedding funeral, so that the new fashion of civilized marriage was deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. The sky-high bride price is welcomed by farmers, and some families even become poor because of marriage.
If you want bride price money, jewelry money, etc. , is a violation of the China people's * * and China Marriage Law, Chapter 1, Article 3: "Arranging, buying and selling marriages and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage are prohibited. It is forbidden to ask for property by marriage. " It is forbidden to ask for property through marriage.
In addition, it was requested by the other party through the matchmaker, and the "custom" that requires a car and a house to get married in today's society also violates this article. Marriage is based on love, not money.
3. What will happen if the new marriage law refuses to return the bride price and fails to get a marriage certificate?
The consequence is that the court will enforce it and freeze your bank card and deposit. If you don't return the bride price, you will be detained.
Article 10 of the Judicial Interpretation of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China (II) stipulates that if one party requests to return the bride price paid according to the custom, the people's court shall support it if it is found that it belongs to the following circumstances: (1) Both parties have not gone through the marriage registration procedures; (2) Both parties have gone through the marriage registration formalities, but they have not lived together; (3) premarital payment, causing difficulties to the payer. The application of items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph is conditional on the divorce of both parties. If it does not meet the conditions for marriage, the gift shall be withdrawn, the donated property shall be restored to its original state, and the beneficiary of the bride price shall return it to the donor.