In fact, the question of this gift depends on how you understand it. After all, the wedding is arranged by parents and should be taken for granted. Who should take it? There is no clear custom. It doesn't matter whether they take it or not. As a child, there is no need to care so much. If you really care so much, in that case, no matter how much you say, you will try to get the money into your own hands! Just a personal understanding. If you think you can, you can listen to it. You can ignore it if you don't like it!