Moreover, marriage between men and women has been a major event in life since ancient times, so the marriage custom culture in China is also profound.
Since Fuxi's marriage system and Nu Wa's matchmaker's words, marriage has been bound by etiquette, especially in the Zhou Dynasty? Three books and six gifts? It is more polite and law-abiding. Although it was later simplified, there are still some solemn etiquette, and there is a saying that * * * tastes both refined and popular, which has been passed down to this day.
Wedding etiquette is full of affection and festive atmosphere, including bride price, makeup, face opening, wedding ceremony, red envelopes and so on. In order to give a good start to the lively Geely.
There are countless proverbs about marriage. For example,? Marry a woman who is a sheep and a man who is a chicken? 、? Men don't marry wives, women don't marry six lang? 、? If a man marries three women and then four, it is difficult to continue. ……
Because traditional thinking attaches great importance to growing old together, it is very cautious about marriage, and many proverbs are a warning for men and women to get married. Some proverbs are, but many are valuable experiences, which are worth learning and learning from.
0 1 Marry a woman who is a sheep and a man who is a chicken.
The root of marrying a woman who belongs to the sheep is the homonym of the sheep.
Sheep and yang are homophonic. In ancient times, men were superior to women. Women advocate female beauty and pay attention to virtue and gentleness. If they are too masculine, they will not be disciplined. They will be regarded as tigress and equal to men, which will affect men's fortune at home.
Therefore, no matter how powerful a woman is, she can't be an emperor, and the queen mother is also criticized as a hen.
Marrying a man instead of a chicken originated from the ancient custom that chickens compare with chickens.
Phoenix is often used to describe women, such as the emperor is a dragon and the queen is a phoenix. The ancients thought that a woman who belongs to a chicken is a good life, and a man who belongs to a chicken is a personality. Others say that the chicken was born by the phoenix, which is homophonic with hunger. A man who is a chicken is petty and has accomplished nothing in his life. It is easy to quarrel when he marries such a man.
In fact, these sheep are really animals that have been tamed by humans for a long time. They are not only docile and clever, but also auspicious things, which are all in Shuo Wen Jie Zi? Sheep, good luck? Interpretation.
In the zodiac, sheep are also blessed. Zhou Wenwang thinks rumors exist? Ten sheep and nine blessings? It means that nine out of ten people who belong to the sheep live long.
It's just that it spread more and more widely, okay? Ten sheep and nine sheep are incomplete? .
As for the phoenix, it is the king of birds. What's the man's name? Phoenix? Female name? Burn? Collectively known as Phoenix, Phoenix is a symbol of good luck in Qi Fei. Since the chicken is compared to the phoenix, it is good for both men and women to belong to the chicken.
Sister Li, who works in my office, is a sheep and her husband is a chicken.
It happened that Li Jie's husband started from scratch and opened more than 20 restaurant chains in several cities. Li Jie has everything from luxury cars to luxury bags, diamond rings and big-name cosmetics. The key is that Li Jie's husband still knows the pain and the heat.
They have been married for more than ten years, and now their feelings are better than when they first got married.
A person's fate can only be controlled by himself, no matter what zodiac sign.
When two people fall in love, it should be based on each other's personality, world outlook, ability and family, not the zodiac without scientific basis.
Men don't marry wives, and women don't marry six lang.
Ancient men and women got married? Parents' orders, matchmaker's words? Although both men and women don't know each other before marriage, it doesn't mean that this marriage is casual until they know what the other looks like.
You still have a lot to pay attention to when choosing a husband or daughter-in-law for your child. Men don't marry wives, women don't marry six lang? , is a kind of mate selection criteria.
So-called? Do you have a wife? In ancient times, it refers to divorced women.
There is no disrespect for divorced women here. Divorce is a normal thing in modern times. High-quality singles are better than low-quality marriages.
But the ancient thought is serious, and women must obey the three virtues and four virtues. What if they commit a crime? Seven laws? Divorce is either a moral problem or a serious physical illness.
Therefore, men who valued honor in ancient times were reluctant to find divorced women.
In modern times, choosing a wife must depend on the value of the other person's personality, and everything else can be ignored.
Liulang refers to six kinds of men who can't marry, namely: unfilial people, gamblers, thieves, thieves, unsuccessful people and lazy people.
? Women don't marry Liulang? Every sentence is reasonable and can still be regarded as a treasure today.
First, Zhu Dexiao comes first.
If a man is not filial to his parents, don't expect him to be good to you in the future.
Two, ten bets and nine losses, long bets will lose.
It can be addictive. Once you are addicted to it, you will either separate from your wife or your family will be ruined.
The wealth in "Living" is due to lingering. From rich to poor, all relatives have passed away sadly, leaving only an old ox around.
Third, the color prefix on the knife.
Some men know that philandering, disrespect for their wives, and ultimately harm others and themselves.
Fourth, a leopard cannot change his spots.
It is difficult to correct the habit of stealing chickens and touching dogs, which will not only bring serious crisis to families, but also affect children's conduct.
5. A tree without roots will not grow long, and a man without ambition will not stand.
A man should stand up, and a woman might as well live a happier life alone than marry a husband who is waiting to die.
6. Laziness ruins everything.
Once a person is lazy, he will be finished for life. Living with such a man is either exhausted or angry.
Although it is not elegant, it is not rough, and the ancestors are sometimes very wise.
A man married three women and four, but it was difficult to continue.
Both men and women want to find an ideal partner and spend a wonderful life. If they want to be satisfied, they must pay special attention when choosing a spouse.
? A good wife is happy for three generations? Especially for men, what kind of wife they marry is promising. We must listen to our ancestors properly, such as? If a man marries three women and then four, it is difficult to continue. .
The meaning of this sentence is easy to understand. There are three kinds of women who can't find a wife for a man, and four kinds of men who can't get married for a woman. Otherwise, it will be difficult to jump in the end.
What kind of man can't marry has been said before. Now let's see which three kinds of women can't marry.
One kind: gold digger
Such a woman is cold-blooded and heartless, and only has money in her eyes. Yi Shu's Xibao is a typical gold digger.
When she 13 years old, she can let boys spend money for herself; As long as the other person has money, it doesn't matter if he is 44 years older than himself; Xibao's life creed is: I want a lot of love, if there is no love, it will cost a lot of money.
For a woman like Xibao, money is the weight to measure feelings and the foundation to maintain marriage. She can be in power with you, but she will never make a comeback with you.
Of course, their fate will not be good, and no man is sincere to them, only money is left. Some people even have no money.
The second kind: unfilial daughter.
It is not easy for parents to work hard to raise their sons. Our country is very particular about it. If you marry an unfilial person, the old man's life will be very sad, not only can't eat well and sleep well, but also can't hold his head in front of relatives and friends.
A woman without filial piety is unruly, willful and selfish, and can't be a good wife and mother. If you marry such a woman, men will have no good life.
The third kind: outrageous women.
People in China pay attention to one word in everything, but it makes no sense to talk to such a woman. They are self-centered, and everything they say is right, and no one can violate it. If something goes wrong, they will cry.
Living with such a woman, you have to be on tenterhooks all the time. A little carelessness is a river of blood, and there is no happiness at all
Helen Rowland, an American writer, said: Marriage is a chess piece that cannot be torn up even if you lose the bet. ?
Marriage between a man and a woman is definitely not as simple as two people living together.
Before you get married, you must think clearly about what kind of partner you want and what is the significance and purpose of marriage. Once married, how should we love each other, honor the elderly and raise children?
Love is solemn, and reverence for marriage is more advanced.
Sincerely based on true love, know how to respect, understand, be responsible, cherish, make full mental preparations, and then step into the wedding hall and have a stable marriage.
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