If you get married, there are usually groomsmen and bridesmaids, and the groomsmen and bridesmaids should give a red envelope, which is about 500- 1000 yuan. In addition, it is best to prepare a gift for the bridesmaid and the best man. The best man can send belts, razors, Bluetooth headsets and so on. Bridesmaids suggest sending perfume, cosmetics and skin care products, chocolate, jewelry, scarves, etc. Generally, it is better for bridesmaids to accompany gifts, because bridesmaids may have to drink at the wedding reception, which will be more difficult.
In addition, the red envelopes and gifts for bridesmaids and groomsmen are best given by toasting or near the end of the wedding. The man gives them to the groomsman and the woman gives them to the bridesmaids, but they can also be given by the groom or bride.
How should a married man prepare a red envelope?
The custom of red envelopes varies from place to place, so how the groom or bride prepares red envelopes varies greatly from place to place. The following is for reference only. If you are really prepared, you should ask your parents or other elders.
1, red envelope blocking the door: a red envelope that the groom needs to give when he is stopped by the bridesmaid to pick up the bride. Different places need different amounts. Some areas only pass through one door, while others have three doors. Usually, people with ordinary conditions don't need to give too many red envelopes to block the door. For example, stick a red envelope of 2, 6, 8 and 9 yuan on the first door and stuff it through the door; The red envelopes at the second and third doorways will be larger, and it is recommended to give them to 50-200 yuan. Of course, if you are a local tyrant, you will give many red envelopes, such as 666,999,9999 and so on. You should prepare more red envelopes to block the door, because there may be many people blocking the door, at least 30, and the amount is different. You can consult the woman in advance.
2. Change the fee: Strictly speaking, this is for the groom's parents, not for the woman. This amount is usually thousands, and then a lucky number will be selected, such as 100 1, 2888, 2999, 6666, 9999, 10065438+.
3, the best man's red envelope: I have already said it before.
4. Brother-in-law's red envelope: In some areas, if the bride has brothers and sisters (in some areas, it means unmarried brothers and sisters), the man also needs to prepare red envelopes for them. It is recommended to give them 500-3000 yuan.
5. Red envelopes for the bride's aunt: Many grooms will prepare some red envelopes for the children present. Because there are many people, the amount of red envelopes does not need to be too large, just give it around 50-200.
6. Helper's red envelope: In addition to the best man and bridesmaid, some people need to be invited to help the wedding banquet, such as photographer, flower girl, wedding car driver, makeup artist, bed maker, shoe bearer, water bearer and face washer. You help the man, you are given by him, you help the woman, you are given by her. You don't need to give a big red envelope if you pay for it, because you pay for it yourself. The suggested amount is between 18- 100 yuan. You can choose a lucky number, such as 18, 22, 66, 88, 99, etc. If you don't pay someone, but your relatives and friends help you, you should pay more. Suggest 200- 1000. The more you contribute, the more you pay.
7. Small red envelopes: This mainly refers to the small red envelopes used at the wedding scene, which are used to play games on the spot or spread at the wedding. Probably put it in 1-20 yuan, and it is also suggested to use auspicious numbers, such as 2, 6, 8, 9, 10, 20, etc. There is no need to prepare this kind of small red envelope, mainly depending on whether this link is set up at the wedding.
8. Other red envelopes: It is suggested that the groom prepare extra red envelopes with different amounts in case they are needed at that time.
What red envelopes should the woman prepare?
1. Red envelopes in brother-in-law: In some places, the bride and groom should give red envelopes to each other's brothers and sisters (in some places, unmarried brothers and sisters), and the amount is suggested to be between 600-3000 yuan.
2. Bridesmaid's red envelopes: Generally, the groom prepares the red envelopes and gifts for the best man, so the bridesmaid's red envelopes and gifts are given by the bride, but they can also be given by one of the bride or groom.
3. Red envelopes for helpers: As mentioned in the previous article, if the person invited to help is helping the bride, the bride will give a red envelope.
4. Give red envelopes to her husband's relatives and children: In some places, the groom is required to give red envelopes to the bride's younger relatives, and the woman gives red envelopes to her husband's relatives and children. Therefore, it is best for the woman to prepare some red envelopes for the children of the relatives of the groom, not too big, just give them about 50-200. This kind of woman doesn't have to give it, because often the groom will give the relatives and children on both sides together, so the bride doesn't need to give it again.
In addition, the bride is also advised to prepare some red envelopes with different amounts in case of need at that time.