My husband and I are classmates. We have many friends with each other. Usually, my husband and I will participate in activities with these friends. In other cases, my husband and I participate in friends' activities separately. There is no other reason, because I don't want to leave the other half out in the cold. Although everyone can get familiar with it after playing a few more times, I think it's really bad to force each other to accompany themselves if their interests are totally different. Just like my colleagues in my husband's company actually have a good relationship, but there are activities in their company, and I don't want to go even if I am asked to go out, because the form and content of their party are not my favorite. I would rather find my own program than play with them. I want to play with my friends or something. I will ask my husband if he wants to come, but every time I go home, he would rather bring him takeout, and he wouldn't go with me, even if it was just an ordinary meal. Anyway, we will feel that it is only fair to let the other party hang around in all activities and parties and let the other party decide whether to go or not.
In fact, if you really care, why not find a chance to talk to your husband about your feelings? Of course, if it is just to let friends meet my husband, or because others say that my husband has never accompanied me since I got married, I personally think it is unnecessary. In a word, I am barely happy. Husband and wife consume each other's social relations only as an obligation, not a responsibility.