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How was the funeral before the wedding?
1. It is human nature that you will go to the funeral before the happy event. If an elder in the family dies at the wedding, as long as the funeral is handled in time, I believe the deceased will not blame. As an elder, he wants his children to be happy. After his death, the wedding will be held as scheduled, which will be the wish of the late old man. Generally speaking, if there is a funeral at home, delaying marriage is mainly to alleviate the sadness of the elders at home. When an old man dies, it is usually his parents who are the saddest. During this period, parents are generally depressed, so the wedding needs to be postponed.
If an old man dies in the family, it is ok to hold a wedding afterwards. As long as both parents discuss it well and have enough time to prepare, it is ok to hold a wedding after the funeral. But as a child, you should understand your parents' feelings and try to put off your marriage at the most sad time, which is also respect for your parents. If parents lose their loved ones at the same time, marrying their daughter home may make parents feel even more sad. As a child, you need to stay with your parents silently at this time, and then choose a good wedding day after your parents are in a better mood.
2. Weddings and funerals are taboo. If you have just finished a white affair at home and want to have a wedding, try to keep a low profile when you have a wedding. Because weddings can't be extravagant during funerals, newlyweds should try not to wear big red wedding dresses, but should wear lighter colors, such as pink or other light red ones. This is also a respect for the deceased. When you meet other families when you get married, if you want to give priority to the deceased, the newlyweds must make way for the deceased. Since the meeting of white marriage and red marriage will offset each other's blessings, it is necessary to set off firecrackers to resolve them.
3. What if a happy event meets a funeral? When the same happy event meets the funeral, the deceased should be the biggest, and the happy event should be postponed. If the two families hold a white wedding, the wedding must be held in a low-key way to show respect for the deceased. Try not to see the undertaker at the wedding. If you meet them by chance, happy people should make way for mourners and put the dead first. Happy events are for good luck. Try not to conflict with others when doing happy events, so as not to wash away the joy.