This lovely girl!
Tell her! If he loves you, he will marry you! If he cares about this and doesn't get married, then get rid of it as soon as possible. If he finds out after marriage and divorces you, can you bear it?
Love is being honest with each other. You and I really lit up the moon!
I have a younger sister, who looks ordinary, is not tall, has a bad figure and has epilepsy, but her boyfriend is the school grass of the university!
I love my sister very much. She lives in Xinjiang now. This brother-in-law is very kind to my sister and has children! Life is very happy!
So, if you love her, tell her, I know you care about this relationship, and you are afraid of losing it!
Believe me, true love is nothing.
I also have a good friend. This girl has hepatitis B, and sometimes she feels inferior!
I pay special attention to her life, and her friends are honest with each other. So I admire her very much. There are many suitors who don't mind and many who are willing to marry her!
Can give you these two examples, is to tell you, believe in yourself, anyway, be confident, what happened to epilepsy? Epilepsy can't stop me from loving you, nor can epilepsy stop my love and yearning for life!
Come on, you are the best!
I believe that fate will give you a gratifying road.
The blind date A told the matchmaker that he had children before meeting him.
Later, because A may have children, he failed to pass A. I promised to meet, and then I listened to A's initiative to tell me the cause and effect of the incident.
It turns out that A talked about a girlfriend before, and then broke up. Less than two months after breaking up, my girlfriend got married. After they got married, they had a child. Later, for some reason, they found that the child was not her husband's. Later, they divorced.
After the divorce, the woman found A and asked him to recognize the child. A didn't say anything about recognizing the child. The two families are going to discuss marriage. Later, because the opinions on marriage could not be unified, the two separated and the woman took the children. Then a will always be alone.
If A didn't tell the matchmaker in advance, but it reached my ears (my relatives live with A), then there is absolutely nothing behind it.
So the girl suggests that you must tell your fiance. What two people want most together is to be honest with each other, and the most taboo is to hide and cheat.
1. If he doesn't mind, if you don't say it now, let him know later, that's cheating. In serious cases, your life is a chicken feather or divorce.
If he doesn't mind, if you say it now, you will be honest, and he will accept you in half chance. Consider it the last test before marriage!
If he doesn't mind, if you don't say it now, it's cover-up. If he finds out later, your life may be a chicken feather.
If he doesn't mind, what you say now is equivalent to an emotional warming agent. Everyone is very happy.
Girl, tell him bravely, I hope you are the fourth case, even if it is the second case, don't worry, at least not in the future.
There is no doubt about this and there is no room for discussion. We want to tell you that we should be kind and think of each other. We know what epilepsy is, and if it is serious, we will cheat each other. If a person really loves each other, he should be honest with each other. If the other party accepts it, we can treat it together, and it may not be incurable. But if we cheat, once we get married, if the other party finds out you cheat. I know a boy whose daughter-in-law concealed her illness, was born without menstruation and bought sanitary napkins at home. Later, my mother-in-law went to a wedding in a neighboring village and sat at a table with the girls in the village. The man let go, and when he got home, his mother-in-law told two people to go home. At first, the girl refused to admit it. Later, when she saw that things failed, she made trouble without reason. As a result, she divorced. In fact, the boy said that it didn't matter if she knew at first, but she was angry.
I don't think I can tell you. If you do this, your marriage with your fiance may end. If you must, unless you can guarantee that your relationship with your fiance is very strong.
Now let us know what epilepsy is!
Epilepsy is also called epilepsy and epilepsy. It is a chronic disease that brain neurons suddenly discharge abnormally, leading to brain disorder. The proportion of patients in China is 7%. The proportion of female patients is slightly lower than that of male patients. At present, there are more than 9 million epilepsy patients in China. More than 400 thousand patients are added every year. Relevant data show that epilepsy has become the second most common disease in neurology after headache.
Seizure, unconsciousness, limb convulsions (and local convulsions) foaming at the mouth, as short as two or three minutes, as long as thirty minutes. The seizure cycle of epilepsy is very abnormal, and some patients have only one or two seizures in their lives; Some patients have this disease when they are young, but not when they grow up.
Because the symptoms of epilepsy are various, most people have a little discrimination against epilepsy patients.
In fact, epilepsy patients can be controlled not only by drugs, but also by a reasonable diet. Usually eat more fruits, vegetables, dairy products, bean products and eggs. Eat less spicy and pickled products.
Having told you so much above, I just want to tell you three meanings: First, there are many epileptic patients, with more than 9 million in the country; Second, people discriminate against patients; Third, epilepsy can be controlled. As long as it is properly controlled, the probability of onset is very small.
Finally, let me tell you one thing. Any man wants his wife to be perfect and healthy. You only had this disease when you were a child, and you may have recovered under the careful care of your parents. Why did you tell your fiance? You should tell a white lie just because you have a happy and perfect marriage!
I think one day even if your future husband knows, he won't blame you!
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It is necessary to tell your boyfriend. Because cheating can only be temporary, and married life is lifelong, temporarily cheating and entering marriage may affect the happiness of a lifetime. If you are honest with each other and make it clear, your boyfriend will understand, accept and care about you, so that the marriage will be strong.
1, if a female patient does not have seizures for three to five months after receiving epilepsy treatment, she can consider scientific pregnancy according to the doctor's advice to reduce the genetic probability of epilepsy.
2. Epilepsy is a hereditary disease, which is well known. The maximum genetic probability is that both parties are primary epilepsy. In this case, you should avoid getting married and having children.
3. If a woman suffers from generalized grand mal, her brothers and sisters also have the manifestations of spike-slow complex wave or focal spike wave EEG. In this case, childbearing is prohibited.
4. If the parents of female epilepsy patients suffer from epilepsy and their first child also suffers from epilepsy, then it is forbidden to have a second child, because in this case, the second child is likely to be replaced by hereditary epilepsy.
5. If female epilepsy patients have a family history of epilepsy, they should be forbidden to get married, because family epilepsy will definitely be passed on to future generations. If the patient is married, it must be forbidden to have children with epilepsy.
6. Drugs have an impact on the fetus. If female epilepsy patients are pregnant during medication, they must consult experts and use drugs rationally. Don't let drugs harm the fetus in the abdomen and make the fetus deformed.
7. Pregnant women with epilepsy cannot have surgery and can only take medicine to control their condition. Many patients will consider that drugs will have an impact on the fetus, so they will advocate stopping drugs or reducing the amount, which will make the condition more serious and even relapse, which will do more harm to the fetus in the abdomen.
The real cases around us tell us, don't hide this matter, we must tell each other, and we can't hide it when we get sick in the future, which will also bury hidden dangers for our marriage.
There was a distant relative whose marriage was delayed because of his poor family. It was not until she was in her thirties that she met a divorced childless lady under the introduction of others. Because of the history of marriage, no one has considered other aspects.
A lady's first divorce was because she got sick soon after she got married. Soon after this marriage, she became pregnant and suddenly fell ill at home. If the neighbors don't find out, it will be dangerous. After being sent to the hospital, she was found to have a history of epilepsy and was not suitable for childbirth. She got divorced again.
Since we are together for life, we need to be honest with each other.
Even if you hide the past at first and get sick later, the other party feels cheated, and then divorce is the worst outcome for both parties.
It's better to be honest with each other from the beginning, get married if the other party accepts it, and leave if it doesn't accept it to avoid embarrassment in the future.
There is a saying: It takes 100 lies to tell a lie. It is easy for a person to lie, but it is difficult to lie all his life.
Moreover, this disease can happen at any time, once it happens, it can't be hidden, and it is fatal for people around you to delay effective treatment without knowing it. So there is no need to hide it.
Even if you are married, remember that a marriage that conceals a medical history can be regarded as invalid marriage, and one of the invalid marriages can be regarded as a serious genetic disease. It is uncertain whether the disease is heritable or reversible. I suggest you consult a lawyer, don't work in vain.
In view of the above, I don't recommend hiding the medical history.
Even with medication, the disease will break out at any time. Can you hide it? At this time, it was discovered that the man could not accept it, and the girl was more painful! To tell the truth, this disease is really not suitable for marriage. I have seen several such diseases, and some of them divorced soon after marriage. Divorce brings great pain, and they have frequent attacks. They used to have seizures once a week, but because of the pain, they had seizures every two or three days. Every attack, brain cells die, IQ is getting lower and lower, and taking medicine every day can't give birth to children. Girls should think about it! Tell the man boldly that if he can accept it, everyone will be happy!
Take a look at this topic by the way. This girl has epilepsy, so it is necessary to tell her fiance truthfully, so that the other party can know and understand it ideologically. To explain clearly, it will not interfere with other normal lives, and generally will not happen again with the growth of age, in order to gain sympathy, acceptance, tension and embarrassment. I can also rest assured and be practical. This is the best plan, and we can't hide it.
The purpose of what we say is to face the reality, take out what may happen in the future in advance, and reach a result as soon as possible, good or bad, at least we have a bottom in our hearts. In other words, telling him in advance is like discussing each other's psychology. If the fiance can accept it and everything is fine, there is no need to worry about everything. In case we don't want to ask for the dissolution of the marriage, we will be mentally prepared.
The disease will fade and disappear with age. My wife's second aunt's son, who works in Lanzhou Geological Bureau, got the disease in his teens and committed it once or twice a month. Later, in her twenties, she married her daughter-in-law and disappeared. Now she is in her fifties. It's true. I've been there. In the 1970s, my monitor's physical examination form and promotion form were filled out, and he was waiting for his life. Suddenly had a seizure at night, and the promotion was ruined. He told me that he had never had this disease, and somehow he got it. Later, he was demobilized and never happened again. So don't be afraid of this disease, it will disappear.
Good girl, be brave. You should tell your fiance.
For young men and women who are about to enter the marriage hall, a beautiful marriage life is about to begin. Are you all ready?
Love is the embodiment of sincere treatment, and marriage should be cautious. Before you get married, you should thoroughly understand the situation of both parties and plan your future life.
Epilepsy is a disease caused by "abnormal discharge" of brain neurons, which has repeated and short-lived seizures. In pregnant women, the proportion of seizures is 0.3% to 0.7%.
For the girl who is about to get married, you should bravely tell her fiance that the disease is not terrible, master the necessary medical rescue knowledge and pay more attention to her own safety at ordinary times, so as to get married. As for whether the man has the courage to undertake the responsibility of marriage, please consider it carefully. But be honest with each other and don't hide it. The result of concealment is likely to be anger and indifference after being cheated. Now that medicine is so developed, these regrets can be faced bravely.
Tell me a true example of my hometown. My cousin (grandparents are brothers) is the third child, and he was less than forty when he died of epilepsy. I fell down at work this morning and got sick and didn't get cured. His wife, my cousin, also suffers from epilepsy. Their marriage was introduced by a matchmaker. This cousin got married once, probably because her husband's family didn't like her. After I married my cousin, I had a child named Pingping. Now I'm 14 or 15 years old, and my child has brain problems. Now I have been treating diseases in the county, and I haven't graduated from primary school intermittently. Now that my cousin has passed away, my cousin has recruited a door-to-door son-in-law They didn't reincarnate, so they probably knew the consequences would be serious. Now they have adopted a little girl, four or five years old. I went back to my hometown this time to cooperate with epidemic prevention. I also saw my nephew collecting firewood, with a strange expression on his face and giggling to himself. Poor boy, teach me to be sad! Cousin seems to be quite an elf, and let the children call me "aunt". The child cocked his head and looked silly. I'm so sad!