After the parents of both men and women are arranged, blind date and engaged, the man sends a bride price to the woman's house, indicating that she is designated as his wife. Part of the dowry is symbolic. Tea, snack boxes, wine and clothes should be given to the woman as dowry. )

Step two: marry him

After receiving the dowry from the man, the woman will send the dowry from her mother's family to the man's house one afternoon before marriage. Some people intend to repay their dowry. In principle, the man's dowry is doubled. (But now it is usually the man who prepares the new house, and the dowry of the woman is generally the furniture and appliances of the new house, which is more practical. )

Step 3: Get married

When the auspicious day arrived, the deacon came to the door, the bride's family was busy getting on the sedan chair, and the husband's family was busy getting married. Ostentation and extravagance are big and grand, and there are many ceremonies. Although modern weddings are not as exquisite as those in ancient times, sedan chairs are replaced by cars, and there are also special ceremonies and wedding companies to handle the wedding, but the whole wedding ceremony is used!

Step 4: Sit in the bridal chamber.

After worshipping heaven and earth, the couple went to the kang to catch the hijab, and the couple formally met. After visiting the church, you should "build a new house." Newlyweds have some rituals, such as eating children's cakes, drinking toasts, making beds and serving the first class. It runs through the theme of wishing the newlyweds happiness. The custom of toasting is becoming more and more obvious now. The bridal chamber doesn't have to be noisy, and the wedding reception is the most lively! )

Step 5: Go back to the door

After the wedding night, the next morning, the newlyweds should worship God, Buddhism and Buddhism together, and meet their parents and other elders for naming and recognizing their size.

On the third day after the wedding, the bride usually goes back to her mother's house to say goodbye to her father, brothers and relatives. This is the so-called "back to the door", also known as "back to the wine." Usually early in the morning, the bride's family will send someone to pick her up in a carriage. Before leaving, the bride will kowtow to her in-laws, and then take a carriage with the groom to pick her up. After arriving at the bride's family, the newlyweds should salute the ancestral tablet of the Buddha in the family hall, and then kowtow to the woman's parents and elders. After watching the ceremony, they held a banquet to invite the newlyweds to drink. After dinner, the groom goes home alone, and the bride won't come back until evening. Although there are few matchmakers in this era, there are not too many complicated details, but the tradition of simplification has been passed down. )