1. When the woman gets married, the eldest brother carries the sedan chair, and she walks out on her own, it is regarded as no attachment to her family.
2. When the woman gets married, the family will burst into tears, and the more they cry, the more sad they will be.
If the man is sick, he can't get married that year, but he can get married in advance. This is called rushing to Xi.
4, avoid mourning, there is a funeral at home and you can't get married within one year, but you can celebrate during the funeral.
5. Unmarried women can't spend the night at their husband's house.
6. When the woman gets married, don't touch the ground and look back, for fear of taking away the blessings of her family.
7, avoid the man to the woman's house to get married, called drilling pot holes, upside down door stickers.
8. Don't be happy, two brothers or siblings can't get married in the same year.
Among brothers and sisters, the younger one can't get married before the older one.
10, intergenerational marriage is the most typical behavior, and blood relationship is the most taboo.
1 1, marriage customs with the same surname are common.
12, "blood and bones don't flow back" opposes the marriage of uncles and aunts, but there is "kissing and kissing"
13, taboo premarital sex, emphasizing "chastity", especially for women.
14, it is forbidden for healthy people and physically disabled people to fall in love and get married.
15, "Men don't ask, women don't ask", opposing young men and women's free love.
16, men are older than women, but they are also afraid of the age difference between the two sides.
17, avoiding the age difference between three and six years old, "three-year-old punishment" and "six-year-old rush"
18, it is generally taboo that women are older than men, especially that women are one year older than men.
19, to avoid the birth of men and women in the same year and the same month, affecting the reproduction of the next generation.
20. When discussing marriage, we should combine the personalities of both men and women.
2 1. When getting married, it is taboo that the woman belongs to the tiger, and the "pokeweed root" born in the middle of the night is even more taboo.
22. When getting married, avoid being a female sheep, "being a female sheep, keeping an empty house".
23. Avoid touching trees, big stones, well platforms, etc. Cover them with red cloth on the way to the wedding reception.
24. You can't take the reverse waterway on the way to the wedding.
25. On the wedding day, it is forbidden to listen to the room at night. They all say, "People don't listen to ghosts."
26. In 2008, the 13th of the first month, 11th of February, 9th of March, 7th of April, 5th of May, 3rd of June, 1st of July, 27th of August, 25th of September, 23rd of October, 21st of November and 19th of December were "taboo days", and "sheep" is homophonic with "Yang", so women who avoid sheep were born in ".
27. Don't propose marriage in the first month, and don't talk about marriage. Nine times out of ten, you will fail.
28. Get married near the full moon, send chickens, send noodles, etc. On a day called "Full Moon Tea", the wedding was over.
29. On the way to see the bride off, it is becoming more and more popular to avoid children from the village "smashing the bride".
30, taboo one-day marriage
3 1, choose the date of marriage, and avoid not having beginning of spring in the blind year (widowed year).
32. In the choice of auspicious days, avoid the moon breaking, weekdays, closed days, closed days, robbery, disasters, evil days, monthly punishment, disasters, fatigue days, celestial officials, four wastes, four taboos, four poverty days, five tombs, the day of death, eight specialties and the day of death.
During the wedding, the bride should avoid wearing black and white clothes, usually red.
34, in the wedding, avoid children crying.
35, newly married, avoid mourning, widows, pregnant women into the new house.
36. Avoid women in white coming into the house on the wedding day.
37. Avoid meeting funerals, throwing objects or exchanging gifts on the way to the wedding reception.
38. Couples who have been married for less than a month are forbidden to leave their rooms empty, that is, they cannot grow old together.
39. If you get married, you are forbidden to go back, otherwise the husband and wife will not reunite.
40, taboo others sitting on a couple's bed.
4 1, the bride should avoid stepping on the threshold when entering the man's house, otherwise the man's house will be devastated by the disease.
42. The bride's clothes should not have pockets, which will take away the wealth of her family.
43. Within three months of marriage, the bride should not look at others in the mirror to avoid losing her husband's love.
44. Couples can't eat other people's wedding cakes and weddings for three months to prevent celebration.
45. Husband and wife should avoid going to the theatre for three months, or they will be awkward.
46. Don't change the wedding date, and your husband's family will die another day.
47. The bride's clothes should not be sewn with two pieces of cloth, which means "loyalty to one's own life" and "no remarriage".
48. I, commonly known as the "little wife", am not as good as my wife, so people should avoid being concubines.
49. When welcoming the bride, the bride should avoid falling down on the way.
50. Welcome bridesmaids and avoid married people.
5 1, avoid second time around in marriage.
52. Don't say unlucky things in marriage.
At the wedding reception, guests should not accidentally break plates, spoons and other tableware.
54. Newly-married women will not enter the confinement house for 100 days.
55. Choose a Quanfu boy the night before marriage, accompany the groom to "press the bed" and seek early birth.
56. When the bride goes out, her sister-in-law can't see her off, because "sister-in-law" is homophonic with the comet's "sweeping".
When going out, the bride should wear her shoes inside out, which means not to forget her family.
When the bride first arrived, her aunt accompanied her to dinner. She can't eat, just watch. This is called "watching the seats".
59. If you go home three days after marriage, you must get back to your husband's house before sunset, and you can't spend the night.
60. Brides are not allowed to go to other people's houses during their honeymoon, except for the bloody hymen in January.
6 1, the wedding date should not be clear or ghost month, which will affect the couple's fortune.
62. One month before the wedding or one month after the wedding, it is not appropriate to visit the sick or attend the wedding reception.
63. Don't lend the newly-married mirror to others, lest the mirror destroy the marriage.
64. Marriage can only be achieved by "matching families", and the low-ranking party is unwilling to "climb higher"
65. The choice of marriage genus cannot be contradictory: the white horse is never afraid of the green cow, and the golden rooster sees the dog crying; When the dragon meets the rabbit, the snake and mouse will rest once they meet; Sheep will cut off its head when they meet tigers, and pigs will not cut off its head when they meet apes.
66. Men and women who get married at the age of 18 will encounter "eighteen difficulties" after marriage.
67. On the wedding day, the man takes a shower and wears a raw cloth sweater (only after being born, newly married and returning to the mountain three times).
68. Bridal gifts and betrothal gifts should be in pairs, and singular numbers are prohibited.
69. Gift lists and invitations should be written in red paper (avoid white paper), and singular numbers should be avoided on them.
70. Don't say "heavy" and "again" when appointing, which will lead to "bigamy" and "remarriage".
7 1. After the engagement, both men and women should change their names and call their relatives and friends each other.
72. Every three festivals (Duanyang, Mid-Autumn Festival and Spring Festival), the man will go to the woman's house to "watch the festival".
73. After the bride price is delivered to the woman's home, it is forbidden for the woman's home to accept all the bride price and return some of it to the man's home.
74. "Appointment" is put forward by the man first, and rarely by the woman.
75, get married, the date of marriage is the most critical, we must calculate the exact date to avoid evil.
76. If you can't get married in two beginning of spring days, you must have a second spring.
77. Multiples of the age of marriage, namely, twenty-four, thirty-six and forty-eight, should be avoided.
78. Unless there are no children, male concubinage is also criticized.
79. During the busy farming season, there are many "bad months" such as May, July and September, so it is not appropriate to get married.
80. "On July 7th, women are welcome to marry and avoid festivals" is related to the legend of Weaver Cowherd.
8 1. On the wedding day, the bride has menstruation, which is called "riding a horse to pay homage to the bride, and the family is ruined", which can make the bride jealous and scramble eggs.
82. The number of people who greet or send off their relatives should be in groups of two, and they should say "all the living".
83. No one is allowed to ask for debts or force debts on happy days.
84, bridal chamber, wedding dress is decorated by long-lived and happy women, avoiding widows and pregnant women.
85. I like to bid farewell to the guests with gray paintings at the bottom of the pot, and I don't want to get angry.
86. The bride will not cook for three days, and the couple will not work for three days.
87. When the bride got into the sedan chair and left the gate, her family immediately closed the gate to prevent the wealth from being brought to her husband's family.
88. At the wedding, the bride is not allowed to cry. It is unlucky to cry again at this time.
89. It is said that the bride is suffocating. It is forbidden to peek at the bride in the sedan chair. If you see it, you will be blind or die.
90. I'm afraid that one of the couples will die early when I meet bad weather on the way to the wedding, especially when it thunders.
9 1, the sedan chair stops at the man's door for one minute, in order to put out the bride's fire and not to make mistakes in the future.
92. The sedan chair needs to pass between two piles of flourishing fires in front of the man's house, which means "flourishing".
93. When the bride gets off the sedan chair, she should step on the sack, which means "inheriting the clan".
94. When the bride gets off the sedan chair, she should sprinkle peanuts and grains, which means "many children are blessed" and "the grains are abundant"
95. On the wedding day, two sensible young men should be invited to sleep in a new bed for one night. This is called a "hotbed".
96. If the candle is not lit or goes out halfway, the couple will be in trouble and cannot grow old together.
97. When eating a wedding banquet and cleaning up dishes, avoid overlapping empty dishes, so as not to commit the taboo of "bigamy".
98, bridal chamber wedding, avoid the bride is not a virgin, there is a custom of falling red.
99. On the wedding day, the bride stepped on the groom's shoes, and the groom could not hold his head in front of his wife all his life.
100, don't marry a widow, and don't go back to your ex-husband's house after marriage.
The above is about January sheep guarding the house, February sheep, March sheep and September sheep, and about the sharing of marriage. After reading the calendar, I hope this will help everyone!