——? Tanabata is China's Valentine's Day. On the day when the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl met, a long-discussed wedding was held in 1926 Beijing Beihai Park. The groom Xu Zhimo and the bride Lu Xiaoman have already become the center of public opinion. At the wedding, Xu Zhimo's teacher Liang Qichao's congratulations embarrassed everyone present except himself. He didn't say anything auspicious, but scolded the bride and groom for not taking marriage seriously. Finally, he said, "I wish you a final marriage!" " "Afterwards, Liang Qichao wrote to his daughter Liang Lingxian and said," I did something I didn't want to do yesterday, that is, I married Xu Zhimo. His bride is Wang Geng's wife. It is immoral to divorce Wang Geng after falling in love with Zhimo. Zhimo found such a person as a companion, fearing that the pain would follow in the future. So I didn't hesitate to slap it in the face, hoping it would come true, so as not to kill Shima in the future. I had a big lesson in the wedding auditorium, and the couple and all the guests were eclipsed. This is probably a wedding that has never been heard at home and abroad. "Lu Xiaoman is a famous social butterfly in Beijing. Her father Lu Dingyuan is the director of the tax department of the Ministry of Finance. Later, he gave up politics and became the general manager of Zhenhua Bank, a figure of the God of Wealth. The Lujia family had plenty of money, and she was reluctant to let her baby daughter go to school, so she invited all the teachers she needed to her home. Therefore, although Lu Xiaoman didn't go to school, except China, her oral English and French translations were fluent and natural. In terms of art, Chinese painting, Beijing opera and dance are all acceptable except for their exquisite brushwork. Besides, since she was a child, she has a glib tongue and looks like a little fairy, which earned her the reputation of "peerless beauty". Lu Xiaoman's first husband was Wang Geng mentioned in Liang Qichao's letter. He studied at Princeton University and West Point Military Academy. When Lu Xiaoman and I got married, we were teaching at Peking University. Soon after their marriage, their lifestyles and habits were different. Wang Geng is serious and responsible, and often studies hard to prepare lectures. Lu Xiaoman is a romantic by nature and goes out to play regularly. Therefore, Wang Geng thinks that Lu Xiaoman has failed to fulfill his responsibilities as a wife and a woman. Lu Xiaoman thinks that Wang Geng is not considerate enough, and people who have drunk foreign ink are still so old-fashioned. At this time, Wang Geng's friend and colleague Xu Zhimo from Peking University quietly intervened. Lu Xiaoman is from Wujin, Jiangsu, and Xu Zhimo is from Shixia, Zhejiang, one year younger than Wang Geng and six years older than Lu Xiaoman. Studied in Peking University, Clark University, and Cambridge University. He was born extremely clever, and later worshipped Liang Qichao. His prose and new poems combine China's classical literature and western literature, which are simple, flashy but not greasy, charming but not vulgar. On the eve of the May 4th Movement, he was appointed as the deputy editor of Beijing Morning Post, and later founded Crescent Bookstore to publish Crescent magazine. Driven by the New Culture Movement, he became the idol of people who pursue fashion. Xu Zhimo stands out from the crowd, with a wide range of interests, romance and chic. He already had a wife, Zhang Jialing, but when he was studying in Europe, he desperately pursued Lin. Such people are naturally Lu Xiaoman's favorite. Xu Zhimo is a good friend of Wang Geng, and he and Lu Xiaoman are getting to know each other gradually. Once Wang Geng was too inseparable or too lazy to go out, he asked Xu Zhimo to accompany Lu Xiaoman to travel or enter colorful places for recreation. At that time, Xu Zhimo was in the stage of lovelorn, looked down upon by Lin, who he was desperately pursuing, and married Liang Sicheng, Liang Qichao's eldest son. So he transferred his tenderness to Lu Xiaoman. Coincidentally, Wang Geng was hired as the police chief in Harbin, and Lu Xiaoman was lonely. Lu and Xu are like glue A and B, the more they stick, the tighter they get. Traditionally, Xu Zhimo's pursuit of Lu Xiaoman is unfaithful to his wife, Zhang Jialing, and unfair to his friend, Wang Geng. But Xu Zhimo always does whatever he wants, regardless of the rope and ink. Once he "hugs at every feast", he can't take care of things outside. Both Lu Jia and Xu Jia think they are unfilial sons and scandals, and try their best to stop them. Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman believe: "True love is not a crime. If necessary, you can fight for it at the cost of your life. It is the same as being a martyr and being a martyr. " Xu Zhimo declared to the world: "I am willing to take risks that the world does not agree with, but what I seek is the settlement of conscience and the independence of personality." "I am lucky to visit my soul mate in the vast sea of people, not my life, that's all!" At the beginning of the trend, they were encouraged and cheered by young men and women, and embarked on the road of "not thinking about the old marriage and seeking the new marriage". For example, Yu Dafu said, "Zhimo is passionate, Xiaoman is as gentle as cotton, and when two people touch it, it will naturally burn into a ball. There, they still take care of Buddhist ethics and ignore the patriarchal clan system. " At this time, at the invitation of Sun, he came to Nanjing and was promoted to Chief of Staff of the General Command of the Allied Forces in five provinces. Hearing that his wife's behavior is different, he wrote a quick letter to Lu Xiaoman with lightning speed: "If you miss your husband and wife, you will immediately go south to reunite. If it belongs to others, you will never stop it." After many twists and turns, Xu Zhimo and Zhang Jialing divorced, and Wang Geng and Lu Xiaoman also went through the separation formalities. Wang Geng said to Lu Xiaoman sourly, "If you get along well, you are husband and wife. If you don't get along, you will be separated. I will give in voluntarily to help you. I hope you can live happily. " With the help of a group of friends such as Hu Shi and Yu Dafu, Xu Zhimo actively prepared for the wedding. The elders of Xujiahe and Lujia hated Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman very much and refused to attend the wedding. Therefore, Liang Qichao, Xu Zhimo's teacher, must be invited, although he also opposes the combination of the two of them. Liang Qichao finally agreed to attend the wedding after Hu Shi and others repeatedly advised him to say either good or bad. The wedding took place as scheduled. Liang Qichao said the shocking words mentioned above, but they were unexpectedly effective. Shortly after the marriage, Lu Xiaoman proposed to move to Shanghai, saying that he wanted to borrow the colorful charm of Shili Yangchang to dilute the bad luck accumulated in Beijing. They built a love nest in Siming Village, Fuxi Road, and had a very sweet time. The next spring, the warm wind was intoxicating and flowers were in full bloom. Lu Xiaoman finally couldn't hold back her lingering desire for love and began to relapse. Just joining the social circle immediately caused a great sensation. Shanghai is a land of hidden dragons and crouching tigers, with Manchu veterans, princes and grandchildren, wealthy businessmen and wealthy and idle aristocratic children everywhere. So someone invited her to dinner; Someone asked her to dance; Someone even came out to encourage her to vote for the benefit. Enough limelight, time, spirit and money are lost together. Lu Xiaoman thought it was worth it, but Xu Zhimo secretly complained. There is a Suzhou man named Weng Dragon Boat Festival, who is rich, romantic, idle, spendthrift and extravagant. He is the pillar of Goya's box office collection, and he has the skill of massage. I met Lu Xiaoman through the ticket show, so I made great efforts in front of Lu Xiaoman, and they often performed together to get full applause. Once Lu Xiaoman performed the big axis, so he was tired when he sang, and once he fainted. Weng Dragon Boat Festival shows his massage skills, kneading for Lu Xiaoman, which is actually to relieve Lu Xiaoman's fatigue. So Lu Xiaoman often finds Weng to massage her during the Dragon Boat Festival. She feels completely comfortable and their relationship is getting better and better. During the Dragon Boat Festival, Weng taught Lu Xiaoman to eat opium. In this way, Weng Dragon Boat Festival will practise fraud on Lu Xiaoman for a while, groping around; In a short time, Lu Xiaoman and I were lying on pillows, smoking in front of the lights, and even others couldn't see the past. However, Xu Zhimo defended his wife with a childlike innocence. He explained: "The relationship between husband and wife is love, and the relationship between friends is affection. It is a medical disease; Lotus is facing the pillow, smoking, and can only fall in love at most, but not make love. " So Lu Xiaoman pushed his luck, completely ignored Xu Zhimo, in front of Xu Zhimo, paired with Weng Dragon Boat Festival, and even made a pro-Ni move. What Xu Zhimo did in those days seems to be more thorough now. When Wang Geng was embarrassed, Xu Zhimo also tasted bitter taste. It's really karma. Xu Zhimo is now fighting bloody battles in the thorns of life reality. There was a rift in the relationship between husband and wife, but Lu Xiaoman still ignored it and played in the dark. In order to support his wife's bottomless extravagance, Xu Zhimo not only taught and wrote in Shanghai to make money, but also went to Beijing to open up sources. Sometimes Shanghai, sometimes Beijing, busy at both ends. 193 1 year1month 17, Xu zhimo returned to Shanghai from Beijing and chatted with some friends at home in the evening. Lu Xiaoman still came home late. He was drunk. With all his friends gone, Xu Zhimo was furious. The next day, Xu Zhimo patiently enlightened and persuaded Lu Xiaoman, but Lu Xiaoman didn't listen, so they had a quarrel. Lu Xiaoman was addicted to opium on the sofa, and suddenly she lost her temper. She grabbed the smoke lamp and threw it at Xu Zhimo. Although it didn't hit Xu Zhimo on the head, it flew over his forehead and knocked out Xu Zhimo's glasses. In complete despair, Xu Zhimo quietly left home and went to Nanjing. 19, he flew to Beiping by Jinan plane of China Airlines Jingping Line. I flew to Dangjiazhuang, near Jinan, and was caught in the fog all over the sky. The plane accidentally hit the top of the mountain and killed people. Xu Zhimo's hands and feet were burnt into coke, and his death was extremely tragic. The death of Xu Zhimo caused a great shock, and friends from all over the world came to hold his funeral. Yu Dafu wrote a pair of elegiac couplets hanging high in the mourning hall: two volumes of new poems, twenty years of old friends, meeting each other at the end of the world, just for the sake of beauty; The river is full. What time is the smoke? The crane belongs to China, so you should worry about the cold. The most conspicuous and touching elegy in the mourning hall is that Xu Zhimo's original wife Zhang Jialing and Xu Zhimo's father Xu Shenfu announced the separation of father and son. Xu Shenfu felt deeply unworthy of his son's death. He cried: as recorded in the epic, the literati died suddenly, each with his own sorrow, and his son was detached. When he met Feng Gang, he was also robbed badly. From infancy, I studied as a teacher and my husband and wife stayed together. I pity my only son, my mother has passed away. I endured to let my lonely father regain the ability of evocation. Zhang Jialing divorced Xu Zhimo because of Lu Xiaoman. But she loves Xu Zhimo deeply, and Xu Zhimo's father, Xu Shenfu, also thinks that Zhang Jialing is a rare good daughter-in-law, so Zhang Jialing still lives in the Xu family. She cried Xu Zhimo like this: Wan Li flew fast, but she lost her way when shaking the clouds alone; Once frightened, I pity the weak and cherish my soul. In the mourning hall, Xu Shenfu didn't want to see Lu Xiaoman, but Zhang Jialing didn't avoid suspicion and went to comfort Lu Xiaoman. Lu Xiaoman conscience, ashamed and regretful, two people far relative, crying mourning hall. In the mourning hall, the ever-burning lamp at the foot of Xu Zhimo flickered. Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman have been married for five years and paid their precious lives. Teacher Liang Qichao's concern has become an unavoidable fact. Xu Zhimo was thirty-six years old when he died, in the prime of his life. Lu Xiaoman is just thirty years old at this time, and it is the most brilliant time for women. However, with the title of Xu Zhimo's widow, it is natural to exercise restraint in social places, and society is quite unkind to her. Most people try to avoid getting involved with her. She learned painting from He today and poetry from Wang Xingbo tomorrow, killing those sad years. She simply lived with Weng Dragon Boat Festival and was finally forced by life. Even the copyrights of Xu Zhimo's Love My Eyebrows and Zhimo Diary were sold to Chen Guang Publishing Company. "Beauty has been famous since ancient times, and there is no white head in the world." Lu Xiaoman was lazy and sleepy all day, and soon he was haggard. 1965 She died in Shanghai when the Cultural Revolution broke out.