2. You can get a license at any time. You two can negotiate a day you like, and your parents can get the license if they agree. Of course, it also depends on whether the Civil Affairs Bureau handles the rest time. Anyway, it doesn't matter which day you like to pick it up during working hours in the civil affairs department.
3. The same is true for banquets. Just after the negotiation. But it usually depends on parents' wishes. If you bring some traditional customs, you can't do it in the month of your birthday, nor in April, July and September of the lunar calendar. Then it won't be the birthday month of both parents. If you don't believe this, you can do it at any time.
4. Please pay attention to the implementation. Send an invitation if you can. If you can't deliver it, at least make a phone call and tell the other person in person that you are invited. Can't send messages one by one. You must tell the invited person. One is out of respect for each other, and the other is convenient for you to arrange the banquet.
In fact, everything depends on whether you two decide the wedding or whether your family can participate in the idea. Everything is up to you two. Do it yourself and everything will be easy. If the family wants to get involved, that's fine. If you can play a coordinating role, everything will be fine. The biggest worry is that you two, like children, have agreed to get married, but everything must be approved by your parents, who have the final say. If your parents take the lead, you will be in big trouble.
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1. Are you ready for the most basic life foundation? What are the arrangements for married life? Do you know anything about fertility? Have you talked about the arrangement of family responsibilities after marriage? If all the above questions are negative, there is no need to read on. Solve these problems before talking about marriage.
2. After discussing the above issues, we will formally enter the stage of talking about marriage. Personally, I suggest that both parties go back and inquire about their parents' views on marriage. For example, the arrangement of the wedding, the amount of bride price and dowry, the distribution of the gift money collected at the wedding, and who will pay for the wedding? Or other additional requirements. Let's go home and see what to say first, and then the young couple will talk to each other about their parents' requirements. If the requirements put forward by both parents are consistent or not very different, then find a time for both parents to talk directly about the details of the wedding arrangement. Anyway, the plan has been discussed in private, so you can put it forward directly when you meet, so that everyone can talk about the later things. But if the differences between the two sides are a little far, you two should negotiate a conclusion in private, and then go home and consult your parents. Remember to talk it over. Don't just think from your own point of view. You must understand that you two are about to become family members. Now you have to start a new family. It's normal to think for yourself, but you should also consider your partner's situation. Otherwise, it will only collapse. If you are just like a child, your parents will tell each other that your family has no position to give in, so don't talk about it. If everything goes well, if parents of both sides talk it over, please don't influence relatives and friends around you, and don't change your mind temporarily and ask some embarrassing demands about so-called face problems. This behavior is idiotic. During the interview, the two sides should talk about when to hold the wedding and when to propose marriage, and then put forward the contents of the previous private talk to confirm the situation with each other. If both parties confirm that the arrangement is ok, they will start the next preparatory work.
3. After determining the time, prepare the wedding-related arrangements. The first thing to do is to book a banquet. This must be booked first. During the interview, the two sides counted the number of invitees. Book the banquet at that number first. Anyway, it is not a problem to report the final number before the wedding. Then all we have to do is arrange the wedding. If you don't want to bother, go directly to the wedding company. Everything is easy, and a professional wedding company will give you corresponding guidance. If there is anything you don't understand in the process, just ask them directly. If you have any special wedding requirements, the key is to give money. If you notify your relatives and friends, you can notify them about one month in advance. However, the best man brothers and bridesmaids and sisters attending the wedding must confirm each other in advance. Then you have to prepare one or two people to make backup choices, because you don't know if the other person will have something temporary.
After determining the best man, bridesmaid, brothers and sisters, if circumstances permit, these people must get together in advance to get to know each other. Because these are the people who helped your wedding go smoothly that day. On the wedding day, you were both very busy and didn't know what to do. Many things need them to help you. If you are looking for a wedding company, you can ask the people of the wedding company to arrange assistance for them in the course of the day. Then there is a very important thing, that is, how many red envelopes to give when picking up relatives should be negotiated in advance. The game of blocking the door arranged by the woman when picking up the bride must have a degree. If there is a bridal chamber link after picking up the bride, it is necessary to negotiate where that degree is. Don't be offended, you must respect others. Otherwise, everyone will be ugly. Anyway, just know the boundaries. These things must be made clear to them in advance. Your wedding is not the place where they come to play.
5. In the end, it's still the same problem. You two are the best wedding hosts. If not, remember to negotiate the wedding. Must play the role of mediation. If family members ask questions about customs, they will follow their wishes as much as possible. There's only one ceremony anyway. Don't put on airs My family doesn't have that kind of rule, or my family must speak in such a regular manner. Negotiation, everything has to be negotiated. Okay？
What relevant questions can be asked, not to mention some general questions about all processes. I really want to say that Baidu's word limit is far from enough to write. Don't rush to choose the answer to adopt. Recently, Baidu knew that there was a problem. If you are eager to choose adoption and want to ask questions, others can't continue to answer them.