From the mother's point of view, what brother and sister do is really frustrating.
Because the new moon used to be their good friend? Will good friends be more important than mothers?
They are not always on the side of the new moon.
Xin Yue has just arrived at Nuda Sea Palace, and his two children are very popular. Xinyue is younger than the two brothers and sisters and is loved by them as sisters.
Jiyuan likes the new moon and Luo Lin strongly supports it. She wants Xinyue to be a sister-in-law and join their family.
Rowling and Xinyue talk about everything, but unexpectedly, Xinyue hides some terrible things from her.
When the new moon left the book, Luo knew as well as her grandmother and brother.
She regards Xinyue as her best friend and sister, but Xinyue wants to be her little mother?
Therefore, Rowling was very angry and blamed Xinyue for eloping with Nudahai and destroying her family.
At that time, Luo Guoguo stood on Yanji's side and condemned the Nudahai and the New Moon.
Father is ungrateful, so she naturally wants to protect her helpless mother.
But her position is slowly changing.
Seeing the new moon entering the door, Yanji spilled tea all over her face, which was really unbearable.
She couldn't bear to see the new moon tortured by Yanji. Even catching up with the new moon and not telling Nudahai about the abuse is forcing yourself to show a tough attitude.
After getting married, Isaiah was curious about the new moon and took Lorraine to play, but she didn't refuse to the end.
Because I still care about the new moon as a friend in my heart.
When the three girls were eating snacks, Xin Yue recalled that once upon a time, they chatted with Rowling and they ate up a whole box of rose shortcakes.
Xinyue misses the happy time when they chatted, and so does Rowling?
She should bear in mind her position and can't and dare not sympathize with her mother's rival in love.
Still thinking about the friendship with the new moon, don't want to lose good friends.
It's really tangled.
The new moon looks so wronged, Luo is kind and simple, of course she can't bear it. The emotional balance in her heart is slowly tilting towards the new moon.
Then, Luo Lin said something that Yanji could not accept.
She advised Yanji to accept the new moon and stop being angry with Nudahai.
Yanji hates her ungrateful husband and mistress, and her daughter actually speaks for them instead of helping her mother? !
Yanji took Luo Lin's persuasion as betrayal and slapped her daughter.
Not long after, she regretted doing so again and went to apologize to her daughter.
Luo still didn't want to make her mother sad, so she had to keep her distance from the new moon for the time being.
The reason why she persuaded her mother to accept mistress Xiao San was because she had never experienced emotional twists and turns and did not understand the subjectivity of her mother's heartache, but more importantly, she did not want to see her mother live in hatred and pain.
At that time, men could legally own concubines. As a court official, Nudahai didn't take a concubine for the first time until he was in his forties, which is not too much for outsiders.
In modern times, Yanji can expose her husband's affair, make them accept everyone's criticism, and go to court to sue for divorce and get alimony.
However, Yanji harassed concubines many times at that time, but she was jealous and not virtuous. She suffered herself and could not get sympathy from others.
As a daughter, I just don't want my mother to fight against mainstream values and suffer all the time.
I feel that Luo Lin is unfilial, just from Yanji's standpoint and modern thought.
Luo Lin loves her mother and loves her dearly, but she can't ignore her father's feelings.
Nudahai is sorry for Yanji, not his child.
Since Luo and Ji Yuan can't let go of their friendship with Xinyue, neither can their years of fatherly love.
Like their grandmother, they want to see their father happy and the whole family happy before persuading their mother to accept the truth.
Or it can be said that this kind of appeasement is very timid and powerless.
But in life, who can suppress the opposing people to the end?
Even if you are right and the other person is pitiful, it is extreme and narrow-minded for you to persist in resentment.
Outsiders will not see your scars and sadness, even relatives.
Scars and sadness are not on themselves, and no one will feel the same.