The last article talked about You Sanjie's doing the opposite, resisting the play of Jia Zhen and others with his shameless and great behavior. People like Jia Zhen never spend a day at will, but spend a lot of money.

However, it is not a long-term solution for an unmarried woman to do these things. After all, this is a patriarchal society, and men are excusable no matter what they do, just like Jia Mu advised Wang Xifeng. But if a woman makes a mistake, it will not come to a good end.

What worries about You Sanjie's future most is Sister You. Since you don't want to marry Jia Zhen as a concubine, you can marry someone else, but can Jia Zhen put it down?

Second Sister You advised Jia Lian on the pillow: "You and Brother Zhen should discuss it, choose a familiar one and hire a third maid." This is not the usual way to keep her. Eventually something will happen. What can we do? "

Jia Lian had actually discussed with Jia Zhen before this. "I went back to my eldest brother the day before yesterday, but he just couldn't bear it. I said,' It's fat mutton, but it's hot; Roses are cute, but they will prick your hands. We may not be able to stay any longer, so let's find someone to hire. "But what is Jia Zhen attitude? He still loathe to give up You Sanjie, hesitated to stay.

Jia Zhen is not as frank as when he transferred Second Sister You. He is always reluctant to give it to those who don't get it. Besides, he also lost a lot of money on You Sanjie.

Why do Jia Zhen and Jia Lian have different attitudes towards marrying You Sanjie? Jia Zhen was so actively engaged to Second Sister You that she was going to make up and play with jewelry. A fundamental purpose is to seize the opportunity to win You Sanjie. I didn't expect You Sanjie to have such a temper and character and be fooled by You Sanjie. Now he wants to be near her, but he can't. He wants to leave her. Fundamentally speaking, Jia Zhen is unwilling to achieve his goal.

Although Jia Lian covets You Sanjie's beauty, his main goal is Second Sister You, who is gentle and docile, unlike Wang Xifeng, who is self-taught and really suits Jia Lian's heart. He doesn't care about your second sister's lewdness in the past, but only takes the goodness of the present and is inseparable from your second sister like a duck to water. So, for your third sister, he didn't take it to heart. Since I can't get it, I might as well get married, which saves his mind and fulfills a wish of Second Sister You.

Second Sister You listened to Jia Lian and said, "Don't worry. Tomorrow we'll try to persuade Third Maiden first, but she agreed and told her to make trouble by herself. " This is impossible, so I have to hire her. "

Second Sister You means that since Jia Zhen can't do the work here, he should start from You Sanjie. If You Sanjie himself is willing to marry someone else, Jia Zhen won't make trouble. Many people will marry You Sanjie. In other words, the main party to this engagement is no longer Jia Zhen, but Jia Lian. Find the right person, Jia Lian will decide to marry your third sister.

The next day, Second Sister You prepared a banquet and invited her to come over. You didn't have to ask You Sanjie to know her intentions. Since my sister and brother-in-law are going to marry another person, You Sanjie spoke his mind:

"But for life, from birth to death, is no joke. I have changed my mind now, as long as I choose someone who can be happy with me every day to go with him. " If it's up to you to choose, it's richer than Shi Chong, but it's only built in Zijian, and its appearance is better than Pan An. I can't get in. I've lived my life in vain.

You Sanjie's remarks at that time were very bold. According to the requirements of feudal ethics for women, parents are the masters of marriage, and they did not say that they chose their husbands. Although You Sanjie lost his father, he still has his mother, sister and brother-in-law. But You Sanjie is not the kind of woman who has no opinion and listens to her family's arrangement. It is precisely because marriage is not a child's play that it is more important to choose a person who can satisfy himself.

In fact, You Sanjie's pursuit is the same as Daiyu's, both of which are to find a desirable person to marry. Otherwise, you'll live a lifetime in vain. You Sanjie's words on marriage are so clear that people feel that she has the rationality and maturity of modern women. Compared with those girls who are shy when talking about marriage, You Sanjie is more open and lovely.

You Sanjie's only criterion in choosing a spouse is to win his own heart, not wealth, talent and appearance. She has to choose for herself, because she already has someone in her heart.

Jia Lian smiled and said, "That's easy." Who do you say you are? The bride price is all ours, and mom doesn't have to worry about it. "Jia Lian took the initiative to assume the responsibility of the employer.

You Sanjie sobbed: "Sister knows, I don't need to say it." But second sister, you can't remember who it is at the moment. It turns out that my sister didn't observe her heart.

Jia Lian guessed it was Baoyu, but Second Sister You's mother thought it was really Baoyu, which provoked You Sanjie to scold: "We have ten sisters, but we can't marry your ten brothers. Is there no good man in the world except your family? "

Why on earth do you resent your third sister? Is it because she hates Baoyu? Obviously not. When Xing Er told You Sanjie about their family members, she said that Baoyu was clear outside and turbid inside. Second Sister You believed it, and You Sanjie said that her sister believed his story. She mentioned that Baoyu was in front of them to avoid monks smoking their smell. Judging that Baoyu lived in front of the girls anyway, it is not appropriate for outsiders. It can be seen that You Sanjie has neither prejudice nor antipathy to Baoyu. What she dislikes is that the world is so big, why do you have to find a man in Jia's house? Especially when I think of what I said to Jia Zhen before, I can't help but resent it, and even Baoyu is tired.

02

Who did your third sister choose? This man is not here now, I don't know how long he will come back. He is a vagrant. He has neither a family background nor a fixed property. Most people don't choose such people as husbands, but it's hard for them to fall in love with You Sanjie. And You Sanjie had a crush on him for five years. Just because I took one more look at you in the crowd, I will never forget your face. You Sanjie is the woman who was charmed by this love spell.

She said: "If this person doesn't come for a year, she will wait for a year; Don't come for ten years, wait for ten years; " If this man dies and doesn't come back, she would rather shave her head to be an aunt, eat a long vegetarian meal and read Buddha for the rest of her life. "

You Sanjie turned out to be such a spoony woman! She looks so shameless and sultry in front of a lecherous man like Jia Zhen, but if she is in front of her sweetheart, I don't know how tender she is. who is it? Let your third sister be so tempted. It turned out that Liu Xianglian beat Xue Pan and ran away.

Jia Lian was in a hurry. "He just wandered around. He didn't come until a few years ago. Isn't it a waste of time? "

You Sanjie said, "Brother-in-law, don't worry. We are not the kind of people who are half-hearted. We are what we say. If someone named Liu comes, I will marry him. " From now on, I will fast and recite Buddha's words, and only serve my mother. When she comes, I will marry her. If I don't come for a hundred years, I'll practice by myself. With that, he broke a Hosta in two and swore, "One sentence is not true, just like this Hosta!" " Then he went back to his room, and from then on, he didn't move or talk.

You Sanjie vowed to wait for Liu Xianglian to come back, and vowed to marry Liu Xianglian. She thought the worst result was that she couldn't wait for this person, and Liu Xianglian never came back, so she became a nun. This spoony woman is so determined about her love.

But she never thought that Liu Xianglian would want her. In fact, this also illustrates You Sanjie's generosity from another angle. If she really has the shame of having an affair with Jia Zhen and others, then she will inevitably have the fear and inferiority of others like Second Sister You.

Obviously, You Sanjie has no such worries and inferiority complex. When it comes to marriage, You Sanjie is determined to marry Liu Xianglian, who has been secretly in love for five years, which also shows that You Sanjie is aboveboard. Although she has charm, she has no shame of being romantic.

When she was a young girl in The Seeds of Love, she accidentally took a fancy to the little drama actor Liu Xianglian and kept this person in her heart for five years, which shows how perfect this person is in her heart. If You Sanjie and Jia Zhen really can't stand anything, she won't want to marry Liu Xianglian, and she will feel that she is not worthy of the perfect male god in her heart. She will give up her insistence on love, give up herself, let her family arrange and marry whoever she wants, so that she can live her own life.

03

So, what kind of person is You Sanjie's favorite Liu Xianglian? There is such a description in chapter 47:

"Liu Xianglian is a noble family. She failed to study, her parents died young, and she has always been indifferent and chivalrous. She is cool, good at playing with guns and swords, gambling and drinking, and even sleeping among flowers, playing the flute and playing the piano. " Because he is young and beautiful, people who don't know his identity mistake him for an actress. "

From the above short more than one hundred words, we can know that:

First of all, Liu Xianglian is a black sheep. My parents are dead, free and informal, and I don't like reading, but I like playing with guns and swords, which is very chivalrous.

Secondly, he is beautiful and a literary fan. He can play flute and guzheng, and he is also a decent guest singer. That's why he is very popular.

Third, although the family has fallen, friends are still dominated by aristocratic children. With his own ability and charm, aristocratic men prefer to make friends with him. At the same time, he also has some aristocratic habits, such as gambling, drinking and sleeping.

Although Liu Xianglian has some bad habits of aristocratic men, she is still a good person on the whole. For example, he made friends with Baoyu and Qin Zhong who died later. Afraid of rain rushing to Qin Zhong's grave, he carried them on his back and found that the grave had moved. Although I was penniless and had little savings at home, I still took hundreds of dollars to hire someone to clean it. It can be seen that he is a man who is affectionate and righteous to his friends.

And he is also a man with a sense of justice, regardless of the past. Xue Pan molested him as an actor, so he tried to cheat him out and beat him up. Although he is beautiful as an actor, he is a bloody man. Knowing that Xue Pan's family was rich and related to Jia Fu, he dared to beat Xue Pan to his knees and beg for mercy, and then walked away. He has a chivalrous spirit that is not afraid of offending powerful people. When he met Xue Pan's caravan robbed by robbers, he was able to put aside his previous grievances and give him a hand.

From this point of view, Liu Xianglian and You Sanjie, no matter from the background, appearance and conduct, are quite well matched. However, can God fulfill their marriage?

04

If there were no strange fate, Jia Lian happened to meet Liu Xianglian and Xue Pan on his way to Ping 'an. It happened that Xue Pan wanted to go to Beijing to buy a house for Liu Xianglian and find a good marriage in order to repay Liu Xianglian for saving his life.

Liu Xianglian, who has been wandering for many years, also wants to settle down and live. His ideal is to marry a beautiful woman. So as to be worthy of his looks. Jia Lian said, "I have a good marriage here and deserve my second brother." "When Liu Xiong saw me, he knew that my wife's appearance was unparalleled in ancient and modern times."

Liu Xianglian was overjoyed, so he betrothed You Sanjie to Jia Lian, and gave Jia Lian an ancestral mandarin duck sword. Jia Lian went home and gave the Yuanyang sword to You Sanjie. On the way, he told me about Liu Xianglian's engagement with him. You Sanjie was overjoyed and thought there was hope for happiness. I quickly took the sword and hung it on the window of the embroidery room, looking forward to your return every day.

Who knows this mandarin duck sword became You Sanjie's deadly sword, and Liu Xianglian's breaking off marriage became You Sanjie's deadly curse.

Liu Xianglian asked Baoyu about You Sanjie. When he learned that You Sanjie was Jia Zhen's sister-in-law, he said, "It's not a good thing. This can't be done. Except for the two stone lions in your East House, I'm afraid even cats and dogs are not clean. I won't be the rest of the tortoise. "

Then find Jia Lian resolutely break off an engagement and return to Yuanyang Sword. Although Liu Xianglian herself is not a completely honest person, she often sleeps like a willow tree, but she asks her wife to be stunning and absolutely pure, without any stain. He can let bygones be bygones, but he won't care about past mistakes in his wife's affairs like Jia Lian. Knowing that breaking off an engagement is a fatal blow to a woman, she still insists on breaking off an engagement.

Your third sister waited madly for him to come, and finally came, but now she has gone back on her word. Knowing that he got the news in Jiafu, he naturally disdained being a wife, because he was a shameless person.

Will your third sister defend herself? Where can we argue clearly? I'm bored myself.

So he returned the sword with tears and committed suicide.

Broken peach blossoms are everywhere red, and it is difficult to help Yushan fall!

Liu Xianglian regrets that I didn't know your third sister was such a strong-willed and spoony woman.

You Sanjie thought that the lover had a natural childlike heart, so he didn't have to say anything, but he didn't know that Liu Xianglian knew nothing about her. Only by her understanding of Ningfu, he concluded that she was a shameless person.

You Sanjie's deep affection at this point, turning his hair into ambition, can be regarded as a mirror. However, Liu Xianglian made a hasty decision. Then she became suspicious and decided to break off the marriage. There is no room for manoeuvre.

You Sanjie must die to repay this kindness. Liu Xianglian regretted being late. Liu Xianglian was infatuated with love, but was blinded by the cold words of the Taoist priest, cut off his hair and drifted away from the Taoist priest.

You Sanjie's behavior, though touching and regrettable, cannot be used for reference. After all, there are more living spaces and opportunities in our time, and there is no need to sacrifice your life to make people who don't love you regret it.

The following passage is for someone who has a secret crush:

I want to love myself.

I used to be confused by love, but now I don't feel it.

At this point, the situation is over, and it has nothing to do with you.

I used to love you so much, but it has nothing to do with you, and it has nothing to do with you from now on.