What matters is not the bride price, but the attitude of the mind to the bride price. It's just an attitude that everyone wants, and there's no need to ask for expensive bride price. And most girls also think that the bride price is not the most important. It is important that two people have the same mind, so that their future life will be more enjoyable. It is really ridiculous to say that the bride price before marriage has collapsed. And the man should take the initiative to show an attitude to reassure the girls.
Looking at personal economic strength, if two people talk about falling apart because of the bride price, it must be that girls think that the other party has the strength to give more bride price, but they don't pay attention to it. We should choose how much bride price to give each other according to our own economic strength, and also let each other feel that they value it very much. Most girls have no strong desire for money, mainly because two people can respect each other and the other can value themselves.
Local customs are also very important. If you start to care before marriage, the days after marriage will be even worse. If most girls choose to cancel their wedding with each other, it is not because of a trivial matter, but because the last thing collapsed and they don't want to hurt themselves or lead a trivial life after marriage. 60 thousand yuan bride price is enough, but it still depends on the customs in our area. There may be more bride price in some areas, which is also a local custom.