You can't. Weddings are held in the man's house, perhaps influenced by our traditional thinking, which has become a tacit understanding. If the woman's family has superior economic conditions, of course, the two families can merge and one can hold a wedding. However, we should take care of the face of the man and his family. Before that, we need to communicate well and see if they agree. If so, it won't be too much of a problem to hold a wedding together at the man's home.

If you still feel uncomfortable, you can hold a banquet at the woman's house in the name of the man, or in the name of both parties, and gather friends and relatives of both parties to have fun. Nowadays, many girls are far away from home, and their parents feel reluctant to part with them. So since the man loves the woman, there is nothing wrong with accommodating her.