I have communicated with my relatives and friends. They know why I broke up, and everyone understands me. I think if I were any girl, I would make such a choice without hesitation, just like me. And they will think, how can some men disguise themselves so well before marriage?
I grew up in a single-parent family. When I was eight years old, my father died in an accident, leaving us both behind. My mother works hard for my better life. Although I don't have a father, my mother has been taking good care of me all these years. She accompanied me for ten years, and it was not until I was admitted to the university that she got the certificate of my current stepfather. Stepfather is an honest man with little skill. He only loves my mother from the bottom of his heart.
After graduating from college, I have a better chance to stay in school. In order to repay my mother, I gave up voluntarily. Back to my hometown, I quickly found a job. I feel great. I can earn money at work and go back to my mother's for dinner after work. Stepfather has a son who lives in another city with his mother. Now the three of us are more like family. Stepfather likes to cook, so I eat.
Soon after work, a young man in the unit pursued me and thought he was not bad, so I agreed. I'm the kind of girl who doesn't pay much attention to the sense of ceremony. I think the most important thing for two people to be together is a down-to-earth life, just like my mother and stepfather, immersed in the fun of daily necessities and in a good mood every day.
Boyfriend's family conditions are very general. With him, I will think of him everywhere and reduce his economic pressure. We have been on good terms for more than a year, and my in-laws have visited my house several times. I sincerely appreciate their kindness to me. Soon we were engaged and ready for the wedding.
A few days before the wedding, it was my mother's birthday. My mother is 50 years old. She has worked hard for most of her life and her hair is half white. My stepfather and I discussed giving my mother a grand birthday, but my mother didn't agree. She never likes extravagance. We just invite our family to dinner.
I bought flowers and cakes, and my stepfather cooked a big table. The whole family enjoyed it. I gave my mother the prepared gift, which was a gold necklace I carefully selected. Mom has no decent jewelry. The only thing she has is a pair of gold earrings when she married her father. More than 20 years have passed, although she doesn't wear it, she still carefully collects it. I know, that's her father's memory.
On the surface, my mother accused me of spending money recklessly. In fact, I know that she was overjoyed and repeatedly asked me if it was expensive. Of course I said it was not expensive. Now I can earn my own money and have the ability to buy her a decent gift. I remember when I was at school, every time my mother had a birthday, I could only draw her a greeting card and then make a handmade flower for her to wear. Even so, my mother smiled happily.
When I come out of my house in the afternoon, my boyfriend always looks bad. He kept asking me how much this necklace cost. I told him more than 6000 truthfully, and my boyfriend got angry when he heard it: Are you sick? Don't you know that we spent so much money to buy a necklace for your mother and will get married soon? After marriage, there are many places to spend money!
When I said this, I looked puzzled and asked him: What happened when I spent my own money to buy a necklace for my mother? What does this have to do with our marriage? I bought my mother a present for the first time after I grew up. What's the matter with you? I retorted a few words, and my boyfriend was furious and slapped me.
This man is terrible. I just feel burning on my face. I can't believe he slapped me. After being together for so long, he always asked me to do everything, and now he buys a gift for my mother to hit me. Why? I didn't spend his money. I looked at him angrily. I may feel too much after this man finished playing, so I quickly coaxed me and apologized to me.
I can't stand it. I slapped him hard. I told him: let's break up, before we get married, it's not too late! After this incident, no matter how he apologized, I ignored it. After I settled the account, I hacked all his contact information. This man is too pretentious. He is always gentle and considerate to me. I didn't expect these thousands of dollars to show his true colors. Fortunately, I found it early. Are you lucky?