Mi-hyun's words, it depends on the situation at home and how your girlfriend's parents are. According to the general situation, if your family is in good condition, you should give red envelopes to her relatives when you are engaged. About this, the woman's parents each get 3000 yuan. If her father has a brother, she will give red envelopes to his family. Everyone can get 600 yuan, and your girlfriend's own brother, sister, grandparents can also get 600 yuan. In addition, I have to buy gold and silver jewelry for my girlfriend, a big bag. Let's talk about getting married. Just give a bride price to your girlfriend's parents before you get married, maybe 50 thousand or 60 thousand. Usually your girlfriend will bring some back when she gets married. If her parents are good, she will pay more. If the economy is not good, she should keep some. When you pick up the bride at the wedding, you should bring a small red envelope in case of emergency, and prepare two cigarettes that are ok.