Now there is no such thing as engagement in Chengdu or nearby. The success or failure of marriage is considered by the newlyweds. Getting a marriage certificate is an engagement, which is different from the custom in the north. Many people don't have such money, but banquets are necessary! Of course, it depends on your own situation to decide the level of the banquet, but it must be decided! Men buy rings, usually platinum diamond rings, and rarely gold rings. Of course, this should be decided according to your own situation.

The so-called car, house and good conditions are all men's business. Without this condition, I had to give up, but the banquet was the most exquisite. All the expenses of the banquet were paid by the man, and the household appliances and bedding, including some daily necessities, were bought by the woman.

To put it bluntly, the biggest expenses for young people to get married in Chengdu now are home appliances and banquets, and there is basically nothing else.