Enthusiastically ask a friend 2011-05-01. It depends on who gave the gift. /Your friends naturally gave it to you, and your relatives and elders gave it to you. Usually your parents go out with them at first. People are returning your parents' gifts, so they naturally returned them. If it's for you, people will give you the gift money or ask your parents to give it to you. This is very clear. The gift giver is not confused. I just got married a few days ago and only asked my brother and sister for the gift money. I don't want the rest of the elders, because the elders also gave it directly to my mother. Even if it is written in the gift book, I gave it to my mother, thinking it was a gift from my mother. This is a very clear thing, whose it is. Follow-up: that is, the man's gift money belongs to his parents, the woman's gift money belongs to his parents, and the friend's belongs to himself. Answer: That depends on how you plan the wedding. The gift money received by the woman's family is naturally not for the girl. It depends on how you negotiate. If you organize yourself, your personal contacts will naturally be given to your parents in the gift book. If you have a gift with the person accompanying the ceremony in the future, then you can accept it, give it to whoever has connections, and let it go back. The first question is to discuss with your family. In case the accounts are unclear in the future. Follow-up: That is to say, the woman's gift money is for her parents. Answer: 1 It depends, and we have to negotiate. What's your situation? Don't tell me. Let me take a look at it for you. What do you think of family status, children status and gift money? Follow-up: No, I think, as far as I am concerned, from the woman's point of view, the gifts received by my parents from relatives such as uncles are all for my parents. As you said, this is a gift for my parents and a friend gave it to me. The money parents gave their daughters to get married was superfluous. I agree with my parents on this point. Answer: Yes, that's right. Do you have any objection to the in-laws' gift money? Actually, it's the same as her family's. Whoever gives it to whom, if you live together, everyone you know knows. Then agree in advance who to give it to and how to divide it. You can't confuse. If you don't score well in the future, you will hurt your feelings.