1. Matchmaking is a skill. The matchmaker should not only be familiar with the basic situation of men and women and their families, but also make every effort to propose marriage at home. Moreover, he must basically and accurately reflect each other's situation to both men and women and their parents, and at the same time try to hide evil and promote good, so that both sides can fully understand each other's strengths and are willing to reach a marriage agreement. In other words, if you want to be born, you must have a matchmaker's mouth. To be a matchmaker, you should be diligent in running errands. From the day you begin to bridge the gap between men and women, you should always shuttle between men and women, exchange information, convey each other's wishes and demands, and prevent the matchmaker from having unexpected changes. Traditionally, both men and women have the obligation to entertain the matchmaker. It is no exaggeration for rural people to say that "every meal is served by a matchmaker". It can be seen that it is diligent in running.

The matchmaker plays an important role in the old-fashioned wedding. After both men and women have basically reached an agreement on the marriage, he will guide the man on a blind date, send a modified Geng sticker on behalf of both parties, guide the man to get engaged, choose an auspicious day for marriage, guide the man to take over the marriage, and assist in the wedding ceremony until the "husband and wife enter the house" before throwing the "matchmaker" over the wall. The media said it well, and both sides were satisfied. In the future, they often exchanged views and became old friends. If the media doesn't speak well and both sides are dissatisfied, they will often blame the matchmaker and be regarded as passers-by from now on.