A statistic shows that at least 50% of the existing families in second-tier cities are struggling to survive because of various entanglements and interests!

These families and marriages have no love at all, but only the interests of husband and wife. Isn't it sad?

Obviously, I don't love each other anymore, just because of various interests. Isn't it shameful to have a heart that I just want to "kill him"?

Those who hold their children for their growth (in fact, children have long been married. ) and regard marriage as a food stamp for life and a refuge for society. Don't these people know that they are consuming other people's lives?

Don't you feel guilty and ashamed? Perhaps in today's chaotic values, no one will condemn this kind of life. Under the cover of darkness, no one can see your shameful face again!

If there is the "Moonlight Box" of the Supreme Treasure, we will go back to the place where my failed marriage began 20 years ago. I opened my own scar, and I got six deadly marriage poisons, which I want to write into the textbook:

00 1 if your mother-in-law is dissatisfied with you and your work from the beginning, and it is the kind of thing that can't condescend to accept, then let go of this relationship! Because you can never get around it, the influence of the family background behind her will slowly make you wish you were dead in the long decades to come! Because what kind of person her mother is, what kind of person she will become! Because in the future, your fragile little family can't stand any wind and rain love, and if there is any external impact, it will be devastating.

If the other parents are extremely disharmonious, it is best to stay away from such a marriage! Because she (he) will treat you like her mother did her father one day. You don't need to comfort her in ignorance, poverty and helplessness, because you are not God, and the family conflicts formed in previous decades are not small contradictions that you can solve. An originally disharmonious family failed to teach her how to run her own family in the future.

If you must struggle with bride price, money and things before marriage, it is also a harbinger of future marriage disaster. Egged on by her family, she has long regarded this marriage as a transaction, and repeated calculations have already begun! In her heart of hearts, she made a rule first. If there is a contradiction, she should first consider any action that is beneficial to her own interests.

If before the marriage registration, the woman asks * * * to write her name because of the owner of the new house, the ownership of some business transactions in the man's house should also be marked with the woman's name (such as the store of the man's house, etc.). ).) These all indicate future interest disputes. Because of those things that don't belong to you, your behavior is only to occupy more wealth through marriage. What is this? Is this a robbery? Is this for the maximum benefit of the shopping mall? If the bride price is precise, then the property title certificate requires * * * to have a signature, which means that everything is planned for future divorce! Where shall we talk about a happy wedding? Marriage is really just a transaction!

After marriage, the person who can almost force you to jump off a building for money can say nothing and make you lose face because of money. Get rid of it if you can leave early! I still remember that for the first time in my life, I could really kneel down and give money to call my father in order to give birth to a child with a hospitalization fee of 20 thousand yuan! I want to borrow money by all means. Finally, I borrowed enough of the 20,000 yuan, but I parked my bike on the side of the road, holding the cheapest two-yuan beer in my hand, sitting alone on the steps of the road, looking at myself and the passing cars sadly. If I rush into the middle of the road at this time, maybe all my sadness and mistakes will disappear!

After you got married, you had a serious illness, which shows how much you care about each other. I still remember that summer, I was hospitalized with tuberculosis for two weeks because of my work. In fact, the doctor's diagnosis is not contagious, but her first reaction is to find her mother to study whether such patients can work and earn money in the future. The light rain in July fell quietly outside the ward window, and she never appeared. I looked at the sky with a smile and told myself: I will live well if I get through this! Actually, everything can be lost. I just take marriage too seriously! I can't lose it!

In fact, we don't have to have anything, including a happy marriage!