Depart from Hangzhou Children's Palace Square, go along the broken bridge Xiling Bridge to Su Causeway, cross four bridges in Su Causeway, and then go back the same way. With a total length of 8.5 kilometers, the members of Hangzhou Memory Walking Club completed the whole journey in 90 minutes. In the team, one father is particularly eye-catching-others go into battle lightly, but he "bears" 25 kilograms every time. Tightly leaning on his shoulder is his 7-year-old son Down syndrome.
It is said that his father loves a mountain, and this father named "Desperate Saburo" can be described as "negative" love for a mountain! In order to treat his son, he has been hiking around the lake with his son and team almost every day since more than two years ago. I watched my son gradually unwilling to talk and willing to communicate with others. I didn't expect to walk from the initial step to the present. I can walk two-thirds of the way and my physique is getting better and better. For "desperate Saburo", this is undoubtedly the greatest happiness.
"Son, I hope you can get better day by day. No matter how old you are, as long as dad can run, he will always carry you. " This is desperate Saburo's New Year's wish.
To treat my son.
Give up boxing hobby and become a hiker.
At 7 o'clock in the evening, after stretching under the flagpole of the Children's Palace, I saw "Desperate Saburo" grab his son's arm with both hands, lift it with a wave of his hand, lean forward slightly, firmly carry his son on his shoulder, keep up with the team, and embark on a hiking trip of "Drifting West Lake".
According to the on-site speed measurement, the walking speed of members of Hangzhou Memory Walking Sports Club is about nine minutes per kilometer. This kind of brisk walking with a little intensity, from the Children's Palace to Xiqiao Bridge, many players are already sweating. Carrying a son weighing 25 kilograms, "Desperate Saburo" was talking and laughing with a relaxed face. Father and son will look at each other affectionately every time they walk, full of warmth.
Walking and chatting, "Desperate Saburo" told reporters that he is a Xianju man and is 50 years old this year. At present, he owns two hotels and an Internet cafe. Whenever he has time, he will take his 7-year-old son "Little Wolf" to the Children's Palace for unified hiking training.
Speaking of the connection with hiking, "Desperate Saburo" bluntly said that all this was for his son: "I practiced boxing when I was young and stayed in Hangquan Association for ten years." Because he always likes to challenge his limits in training, everyone likes to call him "Desperate Saburo", so that's the name of the screen. Two years ago, with the recommendation of her eldest daughter, "Desperate Saburo" joined the Memory Walking Club with her son. Inadvertently found that taking part in hiking can improve the condition of son's Down syndrome, enhance physical fitness and strengthen communication with the outside world. So, with a goal, he simply gave up his boxing hobby, even left his three stores to his daughter to take care of, and joined the army of hiking without hesitation. Now it's 8.5 kilometers to and from here. He has to carry his son four times a week.
"Desperate Saburo" clearly remembers the dilemma when he took his son hiking for the first time two years ago: at first, "Little Wolf" said nothing and refused to communicate with his teammates; Just after walking for a while, he cried because he didn't want to leave because he was too fast. At that time, due to lack of experience, "desperate Saburo" could only bite his teeth and walk the whole distance with his son in his arms. As a result, the next day, not only were my legs numb, but my arms were Qing Wu, and I couldn't even lift my hands. So, the next day, "Desperate Saburo" tried to put his son in a mountaineering bag and carry it on his back, but the effect was not good and his son didn't adapt.
"Later, I changed my method. I first ran to the front of the team with my small schoolbag on my back, and then slowly took him with me; When you are caught up by the team, pick him up and run to the front, and so on. " After constant tests, "Desperate Saburo" gradually mastered the skills of carrying his son, and his physical fitness gradually developed. In the past two years, he has lost 12 Jin, his legs and feet have improved and his strength has increased. Now he has become a famous hiking enthusiast in the team: "In terms of physical fitness, many young people can't compare with me. After all, I have been trained by weight! " He said proudly.
As long as the child is healthy.
He is willing to recite it all the time.
Desperate Saburo's hiking club includes white-collar boys in their twenties and thirties and folk athletes in their forties and fifties. Fifty or sixty people come for hiking every day, rain or shine. At first, many people didn't understand "desperate Saburo": a person is very tired when walking, not to mention carrying such a heavy son? ! Does it make sense? His answer is simple: "I am happy to do anything to make my child have a healthy body."
After more than two years' hard work, Xiao Lang's condition gradually improved. I don't want to start from the first step. If I walk too much, I will feel uncomfortable and incontinent. Every time he goes out, desperate Saburo has to carry a big bag and bring a change of clothes and pants. Up to now, "Little Wolf" is still willing to walk, and he can walk two-thirds of the way when he is in good condition; From fear of contact with the outside world to playing with club members. Behind this, it is all from the full father's love.
Now, "Little Wolf" gets up every morning, and the most common sentence he says is "Dad, go! Dad, go! I'm going today, oh, one, two, three; " 123 "is like a warm current, inspiring" desperate Saburo "to persist, persist and persist. A few days ago, at the annual meeting of the club, "Little Wolf" would learn from his father's dance steps and twist his body, follow his father onto the stage, salute all the players and win applause from the audience. Seeing his son's performance of "striving for the top", as a father, no one may be happier than "desperate Saburo". "As long as I can walk, I will always carry him. "
Today's "desperate Saburo" is no longer alone. Many people in the team have become his "fans", sometimes carrying them on his back, and many people come up to grab them, which makes him a little embarrassed; If the player has anything delicious, the first one is Little Wolf. "In the past, our team had many parent-child files, but they persisted for so long, not to mention walking with their children on their backs. Only Saburo is desperate and everyone admires him. " The leader of Hangzhou Memory Walking Club said this.
At 8: 45 pm, the hiking activity ended. Desperate Saburo carried Little Wolf to the back seat of a special bicycle. At this time, "Little Wolf" magically took out an orange, peeled it off and broke off some petals. "Dad, eat, sweet!" "Desperate Saburo" leaned down and took the orange handed by his son. His face is full of happiness and his eyes are shining with tears. He gave his son a thumbs-up sign. Let the reporter feel the warm father-son relationship on this cold winter night.
"At this moment, I have no choice. Because this road is my own choice, I must not retreat. " As Lei Diansheng, a hiker, wrote in his memoirs, "Desperate Saburo", an ordinary father, is holding up his children's best future with his thick and powerful shoulders.
Down syndrome is a disease caused by chromosome abnormality (an extra chromosome 2 1). 60% of the children miscarried in the early fetus, and the survivors had obvious mental retardation, special face, growth and development obstacles and multiple deformities.
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