First, there is no sincere invitation.

Wrong way:

1, send a circle of friends directly to inform everyone of the wedding date, without private invitation.

2, directly in a group of people who know and don't know, send an electronic invitation to inform everyone to participate.

3. notify the date and place of the wedding one week or several days in advance.

4. Send an email to the other party via WeChat or QQ without saying a word.

The correct way:

1, be sincere: it is best for elders to prepare paper invitations, and friends or colleagues can prepare electronic versions. After delivery, they should reconfirm each other's receipt and ask about the approximate number of people.

2. The location, time and transportation route of the wedding must be written on the invitation letter, and it is best to add maps and wedding flow charts to give the guests a general understanding.

3. The invitation letter must be sent in advance, which is convenient for the guests to arrange the time. It is suggested that it be about half a month to two months in advance.

One or two days before the wedding, you can contact the guests again, remind them of the well, and reconfirm the number of people.

Second, the seats are chaotic.

Wrong way:

Arranging seats is really a headache for many newcomers.

1, some couples simply don't arrange for their guests to sit freely in advance (but there is a good chance that there will be chaos on the wedding day).

2. The atmosphere of many strangers sitting together for dinner will be awkward.

The correct way:

1. Arrange a seat guide to guide the guests to their seats.

2, guide people must be familiar with the situation of the guests, guide the guests to sit down, pay attention to the division of circles, try to arrange familiar people together. For example, colleagues can sit together, classmates and children.

3. If the number of weddings is accurately counted in advance, you can make a wedding seating chart and the corresponding wedding seating card, so that guests can see it at a glance.

4. Establish a list of all customers at each table, and the guests will know which table to sit at according to the list.

Third, the guests pay for their own transportation and accommodation.

Wrong way:

1. Many couples have weddings in their hometown, and friends from other places need to go to the wedding venue by car.

2. Those who are far away need to arrive one day in advance. Some newcomers can't arrange receptionists, vehicles and accommodation for their guests, which makes strangers have to arrange their own transportation and accommodation, which naturally makes them a little unhappy.

The correct way:

1, the wedding venue, try to choose a place with convenient public transportation.

2. If there are many guests, it is suggested that newcomers can arrange a unified bus directly.

When friends from other places come, remember to arrange special reception, book accommodation in advance and let the guests have a rest.

Fourth, the long ceremony process.

Wrong way:

1. The highlight of the wedding is the ceremony. A warm and romantic ceremony allows guests to fully understand the story of the couple and send sincere wishes.

What the guests are most worried about is endless lengthy ceremonies, complicated procedures, lengthy speeches and boring rhetoric. Not only the newcomers are tired, but also the guests are tired. Let the guests leave a bad impression on the whole wedding.

The correct way:

1, discuss the wedding process with the host in advance, streamline unnecessary links, and control the whole ceremony time in about half an hour.

2. Communicate with parents or friends who need to talk in advance. There is no need for a long speech, and the language is simple and clear.

3, control the number of speakers and time, the number of speakers should not be too much, a single speech time should not exceed three minutes.

5. disgusting food.

Wrong way:

Many people focus on wedding arrangements and ritual processes, ignoring the food at the wedding reception.

1, the couple didn't confirm the dishes in advance, resulting in insufficient weight on the wedding day. Most people will be in a bad mood if they are not full.

2. Hot dishes are served too early. By the end of the ceremony, the food was already cold, which made it expensive, but it tasted bad.

The restaurant serves food too slowly, the guests have finished eating, and the last dish hasn't been served yet.

The correct way:

1, try the food in advance, try it with your family in the hotel in advance, and confirm the weight and quantity of the food to avoid insufficient weight on the day.

2. Try to separate cold dishes from hot dishes. You can serve cold dishes and cold dishes first, and then serve hot dishes one by one before the official opening.

3. The person in charge of the wedding banquet dishes coordinates the serving speed with the person in charge of the hotel and the waiter according to the on-site situation.

Sixth, the scene environment is noisy.

Wrong way:

1, the sound equipment at the wedding scene is not good, and the microphone may not ring or respond.

Noisy concerts make it impossible for guests to chat.

3, there are colorful and dazzling lights that can be avoided.

The correct way:

1. When booking a venue, you can have a look at the hotel's audio and lighting equipment and give it a try. If you are not satisfied, you can find another team yourself.

2, lighting with the wedding scene style, considering the presence of old people and children, try not to arrange exaggerated light show.

3. Communicate with the host in advance about the music to be used for the wedding. It is recommended to match soft and soothing light music during meal time.