1. In Beijing, mother-in-law usually prepares three kinds of wedding money to show her respect and love for her future daughter-in-law. Usually choose three kinds of gold from gold rings, gold necklaces, gold earrings and gold bracelets, but with the changes of the times, some families will also give jadeite and diamonds instead of three kinds of gold.

Before the wedding, the prospective mother-in-law should buy new clothes for the prospective daughter-in-law, including underwear, coats, skirts, etc. Generally speaking, prepare three sets of new clothes, namely, a formal suit, a spring and autumn suit and a summer suit, which means "company".