Do you know how to arrange the seats on the wedding wine table? I believe everyone has attended the wedding. Many times, we are arranged to sit with our relatives. If the relatives are about the same age, that's fine. The age difference is much greater, and both sides will be uncomfortable. Let me share with you how to set the wedding table. Interested friends should come and learn about it.
How to arrange the wedding table? 1 How to arrange the wedding table?
1, each with its own needs.
Have you ever attended various banquets with your elders? The table is full of elders, and even the delicious food becomes completely tasteless in front of you. I have to be timid, afraid of making mistakes and losing face. The happy party is not lively at all. Since everyone has this experience, why not try to avoid the embarrassment of every guest at their own wedding reception?
For example, classifying the guest list according to the age of couples, arranging guests of similar ages at the same table, and arranging tables in the order from the oldest to the youngest, not only respects the elders, but also liberates the lively young people. In this way, for the elders, although everyone comes from various regions, they are linked by the same life background and experience, and they can communicate freely whether they recall the past or talk about their children's classics; For the younger generation, young people and children also gather at the same table with their peers, thus completely solving the generation gap problem when eating and chatting.
2, embellishment method
The most common phenomenon at a wedding reception is that the closer the guests are to the back, the more difficult it is to integrate into the wedding reception, and attending the wedding may only yield a full stomach of food. The reason why this phenomenon occurs is often because when new people arrange their seats, they arrange them according to their familiarity and importance, so distant relatives and old friends can only eat and drink as much as they like.
In order to solve this problem and let everyone feel the hospitality of the bride and groom, why not arrange a representative who can mobilize the atmosphere on each channel? Representatives familiar with the bride and groom can entertain guests at the same table instead of the newlyweds at the banquet, tell their love stories about each guest, and even help friends at the same table get to know each other and encourage them to participate in all aspects of the wedding, so that the wedding reception is no longer just a banquet.
3. Men and women confront each other.
The birth of a couple, the elements of love in the wedding banquet are essential. There are always some guests here who are still alone. How can the bride and groom stand by when they see their relatives and friends in such a state while taking a bath? Why not take the opportunity of the wedding reception to have a duel between men and women?
When arranging seats, separate single men and women on the list. Each table is arranged for couples' friends and lovers to mobilize the atmosphere, and the rest of the seats are arranged alternately for men and women. With the mobilization of the master of ceremonies, some interactive programs can be arranged on the spot to encourage the men and women at the same table to participate together and deepen their understanding. I believe that this arrangement has made many women and men excited, far happier than the moment they caught the bride's bouquet.
What are the skills for arranging wedding seating cards? It is best to arrange wedding seats in advance, no matter whether it is a newcomer or a guest, at least there will be no bad location arrangement. Of course, how to make this arrangement well depends on our newcomers.
How to arrange the seats at the wedding wine table II. Toast skills on wedding wine table
1, pay attention to toast clockwise, and your own cup is lower than others'.
Your own glass is lower than others'. I believe everyone who has drunk wine knows this basic etiquette. In short, it means showing respect. The order of toasting, if you drink with leaders or elders, should start from leaders or elders, one after another, and ordinary friends will be more casual. If you are special, you should follow the clockwise direction.
2, pay attention to the order, such as leaders, elders toast each other, you can toast.
Pay special attention when leaders or elders are present, just as leaders or elders usually wait for the last dish before the younger generation begins to eat, so does toasting. We usually let leaders or elders drink with each other, and when they have finished drinking with each other, it is time for the younger generation to show filial piety. Therefore, it's time for you to start a toast. Don't toast the leaders or elders at the beginning. It is not advisable to slap the leader as soon as he comes up: "Do it first, please feel free."
3. You can't have the privileges of leaders and elders.
Leading elders can respect many people with one person, but you can't. After all, leaders and elders are generally older than us in qualifications, age and experience. They have some privileges because they become our leaders and elders. The most basic thing to remember is that they can respect all of you individually, one to many, but not your descendants, so you can only respect each other. Unless you are promoted to leadership. So don't be smart. I propose a toast to everyone. Sounds good, but it's not desirable.
4, observe the words, help to add wine, and propose a toast at the right time.
It is very important and simple to see the four elephants and listen to all directions on the wine table. Add wine for them in time, especially when the glass is empty, and then pay attention to the order of adding wine, leading first. In addition, in addition to the standard toast process, you should also toast at an appropriate time, and don't have an embarrassing scene where no one wants to drink, then you are finished.
5, toast, toast must prepare the appropriate toast.
Besides drinking too much, it's also important to talk and make a good toast. The most successful toast is a novel toast that can talk about the hearts of leaders or elders and make them smile. Stop drinking, that's your behavior of drinking alone. If you don't have a large vocabulary, or your expressive ability is not very good, you should do your homework and simply recite a few common toasts before, so that you can improvise and avoid the embarrassing scene of raising a glass.
6. How to skillfully refuse others' toast is also quite learned.
There are usually three ways to refuse a toast: the first way is to ask for something non-alcoholic and explain why you don't drink it. The second method is to let the other person pour some wine in the cup in front of him, and then gently push the bottle away with his hand. According to etiquette, the wine in the cup can be dispensed with. The third way is when the toaster pours wine into his cup, tap the edge of the cup gently, meaning "I don't drink, thanks." When the host or friend warmly toasts himself, don't hide, let alone knock over the glass, or quietly pour the toast of others on the ground.
Toast should be enough, as long as it is sincere. Don't deliberately get others drunk, and don't secretly pour spirits into other people's soft drinks. For devout Muslims, toasting or even drinking is not allowed. Because it is against religious regulations for Muslims to drink alcohol. You shouldn't put many wine bottles on the dining table. At a formal banquet, all the hosts will propose a toast, and those who can drink will also have a drink in return.