Some people are born with good temper and get along with others with an optimistic and cheerful attitude. Even if you are bullied, you can quickly adjust your mood and forgive others generously. In their eyes, these are just trivial things, and there is no need to be friendly to each other for these trivial things.
But a good temper doesn't mean they really don't have a temper. They don't care about small things that don't touch the bottom line and principles. But they will never unconditionally tolerate major events that infringe on their dignity and interests. By that time, it will be too late for people to regret it.
There is a girl in the circle of friends. When she got married last year, she canceled the wedding directly because of the excessive behavior of the man's relatives and friends. Many people don't understand her and think that she has a big temper and treats marriage as a joke. It's really ignorant.
But anyone who has really been with her for a long time knows that this sister is famous for her good temper. Even if someone speaks ill of her behind her back, she can face it with a smile, regardless of others' right or wrong. It happened that such a good-tempered woman was tossed about by her future mother-in-law.
When I met my parents with my boyfriend for the first time, my future mother-in-law gave her a fright and asked her to prepare meals at home alone. She subconsciously wanted to refuse, but she couldn't stand her boyfriend's hard persuasion. Although she was unhappy, she didn't want to be too embarrassed, so she didn't have an attack.
Later, maybe she was soft-hearted and bullied others. In the future, my mother-in-law will deliberately find fault every time, as if to establish her majesty in front of her. When it comes to marriage, my mother-in-law will not talk about bride price in the future, and even the wedding will only be simple, without asking the woman's family at all.
In fact, she doesn't pay much attention to the form of bride price, but her mother-in-law obviously looks down on people. So she stood up for the first time and directly asked the man's family to give 88 thousand bride price. The wedding must be done according to her own requirements. Otherwise, there is no need to continue this marriage.
Her decisiveness made her boyfriend panic, and she quickly persuaded her mother who wanted to refuse and agreed to all her demands. The wedding also went on as scheduled. However, fate played a joke after all, making it impossible for two people to go on.
The wedding of two people was held in their hometown in the countryside. Instead of going to the hotel, they just set up a simple wedding stage and invited a master of ceremonies to preside over their wedding.
I don't know if this is a local custom. At this stage of the bride's change of heart, the relatives and friends of the man asked the bride to kneel down and kowtow to her in-laws. They said that only in this way can we really walk in the door and really recognize our parents.
Kneeling and kowtowing really made her unacceptable, so she asked her boyfriend for help. Who knows, instead of speaking for her, her boyfriend advised her to consider the overall situation.
No way, she can only force herself to kneel and kowtow to her in-laws. Who knows, before she knelt down, a man next to her couldn't wait and pressed her head directly. She accidentally fell down and fell to the ground. The head is the pain of pulling hair, and the ears are everyone's laughter. The man holding her head, like a proud rooster, is laughing at her unscrupulously.
Because she was really angry, she got up with a snort, slapped the man directly, and then glanced at the groom who was still laughing at her. She wants to know how the man she loves will stand up and defend himself. But later, she was disappointed. The groom thinks she is unreasonable. Obviously, this is everyone's joke, so why is it so serious?
Looking at her boyfriend's incomprehensible expression, she felt that she had had enough, so she just pulled off the veil and said, Don't marry, you are too bullying.
Later, maybe my boyfriend finally found his mistake and came to her, hoping that she could forgive herself. It's a pity that she cares that she can't forgive such a man and has no courage to marry into such a family.
Stop loss in time is what every woman should do when facing marriage. When you realize that the road ahead is dark and you can't see clearly no matter how hard you try, it is the most correct choice to leave in time and take another road.
Like this elder sister, it is easy to imagine what kind of married life she will face after getting married. It may be the mother-in-law's strength, the ignorance of relatives and friends, and the husband's incomprehension. These factors will become obstacles to the marriage of two people, and will eventually make each other miserable.