The netizen said that his economic conditions are not bad and he has money to buy a diamond ring. However, he feels that the so-called "diamonds represent lasting love" propaganda is a marketing tool that merchants come up with to raise the value of products and a pit that merchants dig for consumers. For the girl he likes, he is willing to pay all his money to buy what the girl likes, but he thinks that this product, which belongs to "brothers" with carbon, has no value and practical significance. My girlfriend thinks that their consumption views are very different, because he "digs" and doesn't want to buy.
As we all know, diamond and carbon belong to the same carbon element and are allotropes. The difference in internal molecular arrangement leads to the difference in appearance between the two "brothers". Diamonds are liked by many people because of their beautiful appearance and hard texture. Under the packaging of businessmen, it became a symbol of unswerving love.
Diamond is the hardest natural mineral known to mankind, but becoming the representative of love is purely a businessman's hype. The monopoly diamond sales company founded by British businessman Rhodes at 1950 launched a famous advertisement. Marilyn Monroe, with sweet blonde hair, once said a classic advertisement: "A diamond lasts forever, and a diamond lasts forever". After that, for a long time, the world had a strong affection for this beautiful appearance and hard texture ore. Diamonds have become a symbol of love, a necessity for most people in the world to get married, and also bring huge profits to diamond dealers.
Although with the development of science and technology, synthetic diamonds can also be transformed through experiments, but diamonds are not as rare as advertised by merchants. Many people know clearly that diamonds may not bring lasting love.
In addition to the diamond ring, the groom-to-be should also prepare gold ornaments, houses, cars, bride price and so on. When you get married, it's hard to say whether the wedding can go as planned or not.
China has a vast territory, and the marriage customs vary from place to place, but generally speaking, the wedding rooms are generally prepared by the man. The requirements for "three gold" or "hardware" vary from place to place. The bride price is something that the man must give to the woman when he gets married. With the improvement of living standards, the amount of bride price is getting higher and higher. In recent years, the news media often reported that when the groom received the bride price, the bride's family temporarily raised the price because they were not satisfied with the amount of the bride price, which led to many weddings ending in discord.
At present, some young people are in the initial stage of their careers because of their poor family background and lack of economic foundation when they get married. Therefore, after family consultations, the wedding banquet, wedding room and bride price were simplified, and even new marriage methods such as "naked wedding" and "group wedding" appeared, which reduced a lot of pressure on both men and women.
In fact, diamonds, bride price, jewelry, houses, and even the most expensive things are just the foil of love and marriage. With these things, it makes sense in front of friends and relatives: at least the people I love value me and are willing to give everything for me-this is the idea of many girls. This has nothing to do with the businessman's marketing. Buying a diamond ring is more important to the family. In the groom's mind, whether the bride is valued is more important than anything else.
For her family, buying a diamond ring is only a material need, but for many families, the pressure is not great, and the happiness of her daughter is the most important. If the groom does not understand and agree with the bride's needs and feelings, there will be various contradictions and differences in his later life, and the man will also ignore the woman's feelings. Such a marriage will fail because of the deepening of contradictions. Parents must not want to see such an ending. Therefore, the requirements for bride price and diamond ring in the wedding can be regarded as the touchstone of the future son-in-law.
Marriage should be the beginning of happiness and the witness of love between men and women. Diamonds, wedding rooms, cars and bride price are just incidental things of love. Preparing these things may not necessarily lead to a long and happy marriage, and without these things, love and marriage may not necessarily be happy. Love and marriage need to be managed. No matter how good a diamond ring is, it can't buy happiness for a lifetime. Young people in marriage are at the beginning of the picture of life and don't pay much attention to material desires. Only two people respect each other, encourage each other, understand each other and help each other can we manage love and marriage well!