On the contrary, these shortcomings are infinitely magnified by you because you are afraid of their existence. You think your shortcomings (saying the wrong thing) will be laughed at. Actually, it is not. Everyone has shortcomings. You can think about it. Do people around you often live timidly because of shortcomings?
Try it, don't worry, remember, no one will abandon anyone with shortcomings. As long as you are natural, others will accept you quickly. Maybe I didn't accept it, but I found you. They always accept you, but you pay attention.
Don't feel inferior, you can only build self-confidence. How to build self-confidence? Wash your inferiority through continuous successful experiences.
1, treat yourself correctly first. Find your strengths.
2. Then, let your advantages come into play. This is the most basic condition for gaining self-confidence. To gain self-confidence, we must first get satisfaction and make ourselves feel good. )
So you should make good use of your strengths and give full play to your strengths. Do more, only in this way can you taste the satisfaction of success as much as possible, and then you can build up your confidence.
If you think you can't do anything, you dare not do anything. The less confident you become, it's a vicious circle. As long as you get the satisfaction of success, you can further gain confidence. Sure, maybe take your time. You can do some small things first and gradually increase.
Confidence is actually just a state of mind. What you need is to explore for yourself, without too many complicated processes. As long as you have confidence in yourself, then you must be full of strength. Don't care too much about others and don't care too much about what others think of you. We should treat any setbacks with an indifferent normality.
Self-confidence is actually very simple, just believe in yourself. When you have confidence, everything will be handy. The key is yourself. As long as you have confidence in yourself, everything can be solved.
In addition, the biggest factor of self-confidence is probably the influence of the outside world on yourself. We don't have to live in other people's world to know that others' evaluation of ourselves is always their opinion. Just do your own thing. Who cares? We should have the momentum that the world exists only for ourselves. Have the courage to go your own way and let others speak.
No one can change himself, no one can control himself. Success is your own business, but being influenced by others is your own business. Why control yourself for irrelevant people?
Don't shrink back, as long as you face it more, you won't feel so terrible and worrying. You will eventually find that everything is so simple. As long as you have confidence in yourself, everything will be easy to solve.