Hello! Marriage in Jiaozhou is also divided into different regions. For example, Southwest Township [Puji Zhang Ying Richard] South Township [Jiulong Yanghe] Northeast Township [Jiaolai Madian Jiaobei] East [Jiaodong Yinghai] Ancient Hexi [except Ligezhuang] Ancient Hedong [Ligezhuang] In fact, most marriage customs in Jiaozhou are similar. The dividing line near the ancient river is obviously different. Before marriage, there are two main procedures: engagement and childbirth. This agreement can be combined with the delivery date. In case of separation, engagement: the man brings gold items [four kinds-gold rings, gold necklaces (including pendants), gold bracelets and gold earrings] to the woman's house to declare his marriage proposal, and the woman holds a banquet. Now both parents can hold a banquet in the hotel. Jiaozhou now generally omits this step. The delivery date is a big day to decide the wedding date after the engagement [usually within one month after the wedding]. The man needs to bring four kinds of gold items [as explained above], freshwater fish, pork and vermicelli * * * as an extra bride price [the year before last was 10. 1 10,000, representing one in a million, but now, due to the rising price, according to the actual calculation of the total items that the newlyweds need to buy, more may be needed], so that they can hold a wedding banquet at the woman's house. You can also do it in the hotel. At the same time, set a good day for marriage. After receiving the gift money today, the woman needs to add a dowry [in kind and money] and combine it with the man's gift money to buy wedding supplies, furniture and utensils. Pay attention to this place: the gift money can be negotiated with the other party. If the money for furniture and home appliances is paid by the man, the woman only marries in kind, and the man does not need to bring a gift. He only took hundreds or thousands of words when he went, because the money was ordered. Hehe, the fixed wedding date is a big wedding. In this case, both men and women will look for bridesmaids and groomsmen. The custom of big wedding is complicated, but now it tends to be simple-this step-1. The man is going to kowtow at home, eat the new bedding laid by jiaozi's eldest brother, and the bridesmaid and groomsman are going to prepare other matters. The bridesmaid and the groomsman go to the bride's house together. It is difficult for the groom to wait in the boudoir, close the boudoir door and let the bridesmaid stand against the door. The man needs to give the bridesmaid a red envelope and then enter the boudoir. The bride should hide the high heels in advance for the groom to find, put them on the bride and start proposing marriage. 3. When proposing marriage, the man should sweet-talk the bride to accept flowers to show her love from the groom. Then the bride's family gave the bride face, that is, she gestured with a red rope and the bride created her mother's skirt with a pair of chopsticks. Prepare another pot of water, and the bride pretends to cry and wash her face. Take a family photo. In order to welcome the bride, the bride will go to the man's house after getting on the wedding car. The man's family should prepare a table and put steamed bread, sugar and so on. And put incense burners and candlesticks [this is to inform the gods and ancestors to put their parents in the highest position]. After getting home, the groom's sister needs to give the bride an axe, which means bringing happiness into the door. Some rural areas give beer beards and sticks to represent children. After entering the door, kowtow three times-worship the world, parents and husband and wife. Then enter the bridal chamber. It's up to your bridesmaid and best man to stop fooling around. Take photos in the park in the afternoon and continue to worship the world in the evening. If you are in the city, the master of ceremonies of the hotel will preside over Jiaozhou for three days after marriage, that is, the bride will take the groom back to her mother's house for three days. There's still hope for six or something. It's been three days since I went back to my parents' home. The marriage is over.
I hope I can help you.