Cousin updated her circle of friends: a bunch of roses, a diamond ring, a cake, and the essay 10 Happy wedding anniversary.

He is a serious science and engineering man. He works in a large internet company and is called a senior engineer. His code development is first-rate. He only sends a circle of friends once a year, which is the wedding anniversary.

I still remember all kinds of sensations in the circle of friends and family when they got married. Cousin and sister-in-law are free to fall in love, but it is not easy to get together in the end. It can be said that they are the least optimistic couple after the eighty-one difficulties.

Inadvertently, it has been 10 years. Although they have no children, their cousin has always spoiled her sister-in-law. Sister-in-law is not confused, but as pure and cheerful as an inexperienced girl.

This also made my smooth and delicate aunt completely break the idea of changing her daughter-in-law, and those ugly seven aunts and eight aunts who gave them by hand slowly put down their prejudices.

02

In order to be with my sister-in-law, my cousin gave up his high-paying job in Wuhan and a director's daughter who had to marry him.

All my relatives feel very sorry. Even my aunt thinks my sister-in-law is a fox, which has harmed my cousin's future.

Sister-in-law's father taught in the village primary school, and later the school closed down and retired. My uncle is a high school student for more than six years. He was the first leader of a brick factory. He is not too rich, but he is well-off.

Sister-in-law's parents want their daughter to marry an official who can support the family. The Internet industry my cousin is engaged in has no future in their eyes. My aunt wants her son to marry a better family and make him struggle less for a few years.

It took them two years from proposing marriage to meeting their parents and finally getting married. It was my cousin's insistence that they finally tied the knot.

My sister-in-law's father has a quirk. He has been immersed in the title of teacher all his life and is not allowed to be called by his first name. But for the engagement party, our uncle just doesn't know this taboo, so he swears when he is drunk. His father turned against him on the spot and clamored for a divorce.

To this end, my uncle should give something and say something nice to get things done. My uncle thinks that this kind of in-laws has become a problem, so I just cut off the relationship as soon as possible. Everyone agrees that my cousin is a master's degree and a software engineer in a prestigious school. He is tall and handsome, his sister-in-law looks ordinary, and his family is generally not worthy of him.

However, my cousin pushed her way through the crowd. Unless she is not married, she is helpless. Seeing that her son is old, her uncle and aunt can only compromise.

03

When I got married, my cousin was busy with work and couldn't leave. My aunt can only make wedding supplies for me.

My aunt bought the woman's when she bought it. My aunt thinks that many things are used once on the wedding day, and then they will be thrown away. There is no need to be too extravagant, so she bought an ordinary model. On the eve of the wedding, a relative of the woman saw it and said that it was disrespectful to her daughter-in-law and asked to buy it again, otherwise the bride would not go tomorrow.

On the big day, my aunt didn't want to lose face, some bought it again, and some had to use the old one too late. Everyone was worried, but my cousin decided to stick to the original. If it is really because of this small incident, it means that they are not in love enough and their daughter-in-law is not married. As a result, she went the next day and got on the bus smoothly.

Later, my sister-in-law said that she knew that she would regret missing her cousin for the rest of her life.

04

Sister-in-law seems simple, but in fact she has her unusual wisdom. She is three years older than her cousin, but they get along more like her cousin. My cousin has a straight temper, and no one can control her temper. It happened that when my sister-in-law spoiled, her anger immediately went out.

The only problem after marriage is having children. My aunt is eager for her grandson, and she is proud of herself. Especially when she sees someone holding a grandson on holidays, she always secretly wipes her tears and complains about her bad life.

My aunt secretly asked my cousin to divorce and have a child.

It's not that my wife doesn't want to have children She likes children very much, but her natural constitution has never been successful. Although she knew her aunt's attitude, she still showed no concern.

Because she had no children, menstruation's prejudice against her daughter-in-law became deeper and deeper. Finally, her cousin's attitude overcame menstruation's secularism.

05

That winter, my aunt received a phone call from my cousin asking her to leave her job and wait on her daughter-in-law.

Aunt was very upset, so she excused herself from being unwell and asked her mother-in-law to wait on her, but her cousin insisted on letting her go, so she had to reluctantly buy a train ticket. When I went to menstruation, I realized that all previous abortions were attended by my daughter-in-law's mother, and this time I had to catch up with the Chinese New Year.

When she went, she brought some domestic chickens to help her daughter-in-law. Whenever the smell of stew wafts, she drools. But when she saw that her son often stayed up late to work overtime, she left half of the things for her daughter-in-law for her son to eat.

As a result, every time my son took the opportunity to eat at his wife's house, the meat was finally eaten by her wife. My aunt is very sad.

Cousin goes to work during the day, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law always have nothing to say when they stay. My aunt wants to go out for a stroll, but she's afraid she won't get lost and come back. I dare not watch TV for fear of affecting my daughter-in-law's rest. Both of them are looking forward to their cousin's return in the dark.

The daughter-in-law has been bored all day, hoping that her husband will come back to accompany her. My aunt is a stranger. If she has been bored all day, she will come back to tell her son at night. As a result, my son goes to accompany his daughter-in-law every time.

Cousin said that daughter-in-law is a special period and needs special care. I hope aunt can understand.

Seeing with my own eyes, my aunt fully understood that the relationship between my son and daughter-in-law is very good. She is a smart person who loves me, love my dog, and immediately changed her previous attitude towards her daughter-in-law.

06

Sister-in-law looks ordinary, but she has such magic that her cousin has cared for her for ten years. What I saw in her was shared with my female friend:

1. Men love face and know how to maintain men's self-esteem and face.

Many women choose to expose men's shortcomings when there are many people. Maybe at that time, because of the crowd, men would pretend not to care, but in fact they were already very angry. But smart women are very good at insight into men's hearts and mastering men's character. They always give a man a step at the right time and give him enough face in front of others. When men are happy, other things are basically decided by women.

Stop nagging and be coquettish.

In real life, most women are working at home. When they are tired, they can only nag or even get hysterical, and men can't hide.

And a gentle and coquettish woman, her marriage is mostly happy. My sister-in-law is actually a little lazy and never does housework. But my cousin is very happy every time and often praises himself as a good man. Sister-in-law usually spoiled or praised her husband.

Many men have heroic feelings and are always willing to protect weak women. Sister-in-law is exactly the person in my cousin's heart who needs protection. Men like women's praise and worship, and hate women's nagging most.

3. Have a bigger pattern and a broader mind.

In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, sister-in-law has always known her mother-in-law's attitude. But pretending that nothing is wrong is a kind of wisdom. We can't change each other, only adjust ourselves. People can be hot and cold, but they are most afraid of typhoid fever.

Many times, to take a step back, knowing that the other party is not doing well can only make the relationship worse and worse. Might as well have a bigger pattern, less care, let others go and let yourself go.

May you become a smart, cheerful and gentle woman. Happiness is hidden in your character.