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Friends who often watch TV dramas should have seen such a scene. Some people died at home and some people cried loudly in the paved mourning hall. If it is an old man who drives Hexi, it is more common for his daughter-in-law, daughter and granddaughter to cry on their bodies. If a young man dies, those who cry will be his relatives and friends. Is this unique to rural areas in China? Sad? Culture. Today, let's briefly discuss whether this unique culture should be passed down.

? In order to have a clear answer to this question, we need to explore the origin of this unique culture first! Our country has been influenced by Confucianism since ancient times, so it has also created our country? State of etiquette? The title of. Indeed, the eight-character mantra put forward by Confucius and Old Master Q, the founders of Confucianism, is the benchmark for people to be human, especially the word filial piety, which has made our country have it? Zhu Dexiao first? Statement. Then the problem is coming. I want to express my filial piety after the death of my loved ones. How can I not be sad? And the most intuitive performance when a person is sad is crying! That's why people lie on coffins and cry to the dead. The original intention of this kind of behavior is good, but it has gradually deteriorated under the baptism of time!

? As we all know, when a person is really sad, he is actually not crying and shouting like this, but is particularly silent. Therefore, we must question these people who cry for the dead. Do they really feel sorry for death? Are they really sad because of the death of the deceased? My answer is:? No, they are not all sincere! ? We don't rule out having sincere guests and relatives when we are sad, but I think this is only a minority, and more mourners just take part in accidental amusement.

? So, I think, this culture need not stay! ?