First of all, before getting married, the man and the woman should make preparations for the wedding. The man should determine the auspicious day of the wedding, the auspicious time of the wedding day, the layout of the wedding scene, the reservation of the hotel at the wedding scene, etc. And prepare the bride's dowry. In modern times, the bride price is generally negotiated by the man and the woman, and is generally divided into cash and kind. Physical objects are used by women to tell their relatives and friends that they are getting married.
Then there is the dowry of the woman, who is generally required to sew the quilt. After the quilt is finished, we should sew "peanuts", "lotus seeds", "longan" and "jujube" on the four corners to take care of what the man put on the wedding bed, which means early birth and happiness.
On the wedding day, the groom should greet the bride at the agreed auspicious time. Generally, there are requirements for the number of people and vehicles when docking. When asking for relatives, it is "odd", and there are generally more than ten wedding cars, all of which are red. Small red flags and colored silk should be inserted on both sides of the first wedding car. Balloons are inserted in every car in the back. When the wedding car arrives at the bride's door, it is usually necessary to whistle and set off firecrackers. At this time, the woman has a special person to receive the wedding procession.
The groom usually takes the prepared flowers to the woman's boudoir. At this time, the bride's maid of honor will wait outside the boudoir. They will ask the groom some questions, such as the woman's birthday, what is the bride's favorite fruit? These simple questions are actually for the excitement of the wedding atmosphere. Later, when the bride was satisfied, she asked her sisters to let the groom in. After the groom goes in, she will look for the bride's wedding shoes again. She feels that this kind of etiquette exists no matter where in the country or which nationality.
Then the groom will leave her boudoir with the bride in his arms. Generally speaking, the bride's feet are not allowed to touch the ground outside the boudoir. And there is a saying that the bride can't see the sun, so when she leaves the boudoir, the best man should hold a red umbrella for the bride.