Changchun is the capital and political and cultural center of Jilin Province. The vast Songhua River flows downstream, feeding the industrious children on this vast land. In Changchun people's minds, it is very necessary to get married within three years after graduating from college, because people of this age are gradually stable in their careers and have deep feelings, and mature enough to shoulder the heavy responsibility of family life. In the wedding custom of Changchun, it is necessary to "grab the head" when marrying the bride, and the time needs to be at 8 or 9 o'clock. Even the wedding procession can only be single, not double, and there must be male dolls and female dolls under 10.
The wedding ceremony means that the daughter has since become someone else's daughter-in-law, leaving the familiar family and parents' arms. As a woman's parents, how can she let her daughter leave her? However, as long as the groom takes out the tenderloin prepared in advance and presents it with both hands to make his parents-in-law happy and satisfied, things will be another matter! This piece of meat, also called "meat from mother", is the groom's gratitude to his parents-in-law for raising his wife for more than 20 years.
According to the wedding custom in Changchun, the bride changed her voice and shouted, Mom, whatever else, 480 yuan! Now it seems that this money is really hard to get, but don't forget that the standard of this sentence was put in the 1980s, when the average worker's salary was more than 300 yuan a year. Now the change fee has a new meaning. 1000 1 symbolizes "one in a thousand", and 100 1 symbolizes "one in a thousand", but no matter how much you pay, your in-laws are indispensable.
Renovating new houses is also an interesting project in Changchun's wedding customs. As the younger brother of the woman, he must be the main force. His work mainly includes drawing curtains, ordering wedding photos and sweeping the floor for his brother-in-law and sister.
Changchun people are very happy to get married, because the same wedding needs to be completed twice. The first time was "Hospitality Day", which was held by the woman's family to entertain her relatives, friends and elders. "The right day" is a formal wedding in the traditional sense. The man is responsible for all the expenses of the banquet, and will send a car to send the guests away after the banquet.