Every post-90s generation will have marriage phobia. First, I am afraid of socializing. Marriage means the exchange of social relations between two families, and many unexpected things will happen. For example, it is not uncommon for couples to love each other, but two relatives are dragging their feet. Second, the fear of raising children is a group that is seriously eroded by consumerism. Unlike the post-80s generation who actually live under their control, the unmarried post-90s generation is influenced by too many remarks about "no children if they are poor", but they can't actually feel the pain and happiness of childbirth and parenting. It is true that the cost of raising children is high, and now it is blown too high by the media. Third, fear of the future. Personally, I think this is the fear of a group that "marries for the sake of marriage". People with love in their hearts may not be so worried about the future. People who get married for the sake of marriage will basically never meet people who think they are right, so they can't see the future. This is not melodramatic, but a real and very painful psychology, which will make people lose interest in life. Fourth, I am afraid to get along. Staying at home for a long time, it is inevitable to get used to being alone more than getting along, so facing a person for a long time will also have a little fear. As for those who are still single and afraid of getting married, in fact, love belongs to love and marriage belongs to marriage. It is best for them to achieve the same goal through different routes. It is not a pity that there is no such opportunity. In short, don't give up the opportunity to experience beautiful love because you are afraid of getting married. Although love and marriage are not necessarily the ultimate goal of everyone's life, if they are beautiful, it doesn't hurt to experience them.