It's basically like this.
1. Write a bride price: Before getting married, the man should send the bride price to the woman's house. There are different kinds of gifts in each place, and they are sent according to the customs of each place. Gift money symbolizes that the bride can enjoy the happiness of the past and reassure her family.
2. Reward: The woman who received the betrothal gift will return it. In some places, the woman's family will give an engagement ring, and in some places, some money will be given.
3. Bed: The night before the wedding, a man with a harmonious family, his parents and a son of the woman's family will install a wedding bed in the wedding room, and then spread walnuts, lotus seeds, red dates and peanuts on the new bed.
4. Dowry: The bride's family will prepare a dowry for the bride to take to her husband's family, and all the dowry will be put in a red box and given to the bride.
5. Comb your hair: When the bride dresses up, she will ask a blessed elder to comb her hair, which means it is similar to sleeping in bed.
6. Wedding Ceremony: On the morning of the wedding, the man will come to the woman's house with the wedding ceremony team. Picking up the bride is definitely the climax of the whole wedding. You have to open the door for the red envelope first to impress the bride's sisters, and then they will open the door. Moreover, the groom will use the flower ball to marry the bride.
7. Looking for red shoes: The groom can't take the bride away immediately after entering the door. He should also look for red wedding shoes for the bride in the bride's room and help her put them on before taking her away.
8. Tea: The two newcomers should bow to their parents and serve tea until the elders finish drinking.
9. Hold a red umbrella and sprinkle rice: When the bride and groom go out, they should be accompanied by a bridesmaid holding a red umbrella and sprinkle rice on the roadside, which means that chickens should not peck at the bride.
10. Bypass Jixiang Road: Newcomers can't go straight to their destination after getting on the bus, so they must bypass all roads with auspicious road names.
1 1. Going through the door: It is a custom for the bride to meet other elders of the man's family after being received.
12 wedding: the hotel held a ceremony and invited the master of ceremonies to preside over the wedding.
13. Toast: After the wedding, the banquet officially began. The bride should put on the traditional dragon and phoenix robe and toast with the groom at each table.
14. Entering the bridal chamber: The bride and groom will take their close friends to visit the bridal chamber or do some entertainment in the bridal chamber. Bian Xiao reminded everyone not to go too far in making trouble in the bridal chamber. If the happy event is unpleasant, that's not good.
15. Back to the Three Dynasties: On the third day after marriage, the bride returned to her parents' home accompanied by her husband, bringing a roast pig and gifts to pay homage to her ancestors.