Marriage is a cautious and solemn thing, and most people still hope that after a period of love, their relationship will blossom and have a happy ending.

Flash marriage is a fashionable thing, but it is not accepted by most people at present; After a love marathon, it seems that there are not as many people who have achieved good results as expected. Maybe every man and woman in love has thought-how long will it take to get married? Flash marriage and love long-distance running are not popular. Jiayuan once asked170,000 single members about this issue.

The results show that 43.3% of netizens think it is best to get married within six months to one year. About 32% people support getting married within one to two years after falling in love; However, only 7.3% support marriage for more than two years. These data show that flash marriage and love long-distance running are not popular among most single netizens.

As a 30-year-old woman who hates getting married, Tang Tang has been registered in jiayuan for almost a year. She admitted that she was single because she was in love with her ex-boyfriend.

"We were together when we were in college and have been dating for six years. When I first fell in love, I wanted to get married as soon as I graduated, but after graduation, I felt I didn't want to marry him.

It may be that the relationship has been too long, and love has faded into affection and friendship. Turn many contradictions into' habits', but lose their attachment to each other. "

After peacefully breaking up with her ex-boyfriend, Tang Tang has a new understanding of marriage: "When I find a boyfriend again, I will definitely not run a marathon. I think two years is enough to make a relationship mature. "

Dandan was born in 1989. Although he is young, he also agrees with the viewpoint of sugar. This post-80s tail, which often appears in the entertainment sections of major forums, pointed to the recent news and said, "Look, the relationship between Zhou Xun and Li Daqi ended for six years, while the relationship between Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing ended for more than ten years.

Not every couple is Carina Lau and Tony Leung Chiu Wai. The older you get, the more you want to get married. In this survey in jiayuan, nearly 40% (38.54%) of people under the age of 30 said that 1-2 years is more appropriate to get married. Only 23% of people over the age of 30 agreed, and most people voted "within six months to one year".

In this regard, jiayuan CEO Gong Haiyan explained: "30 years old is a threshold. Single men and women over the age of 30 have stronger wishes and ideas about marriage than those under the age of 30. Therefore, they are more serious and spend more time when looking for a partner.

After confirming the basic situation of the other party, it is possible to talk about marriage. I used to be an older woman, but I wanted to get married as I got older.

I was almost 30 when I got married, and he was over 30. We got the license within a few months of knowing each other in Jiayuan, which is a standard' flash marriage'.

When I am in love, I feel, ah, the other person is the one I am looking for. His experience, moral character, personality and even IQ fully meet my criteria for choosing a spouse.

The students all said that we were' the old house caught fire and burned very fast'. "。

2. Is it fast to get married after two years of love?

Marriage is a cautious and solemn thing, and most people still hope that after a period of love, their relationship will blossom and have a happy ending. Flash marriage is a fashionable thing, but it is not accepted by most people at present;

After a love marathon, it seems that there are not as many people who have achieved good results as expected.

Maybe every man and woman in love has thought-how long will it take to get married?

Flash marriage and love long-distance running are not popular.

Jiayuan once asked170,000 single members about this issue. The results show that:

43.3% of netizens think it is best to get married within six months to one year;

About 32% people support getting married within one to two years after falling in love;

However, only 7.3% support marriage for more than two years.

These data show that flash marriage and love long-distance running are not popular among most single netizens.

As a 30-year-old woman who hates getting married, Tang Tang has been registered in jiayuan for almost a year. She admitted that she was single because she was in love with her ex-boyfriend. "We were together when we were in college and have been dating for six years. When I first fell in love, I wanted to get married as soon as I graduated, but after graduation, I felt I didn't want to marry him. It may be that the relationship has been too long, and love has faded into affection and friendship. Turn many contradictions into' habits', but lose their attachment to each other. " After peacefully breaking up with her ex-boyfriend, Tang Tang has a new understanding of marriage: "When I find a boyfriend again, I will definitely not run a marathon. I think two years is enough to make a relationship mature. "

Dandan was born in 1989. Although he is young, he also agrees with the viewpoint of sugar. This post-80s tail, which often appears in the entertainment sections of major forums, pointed to the recent news and said, "Look, the relationship between Zhou Xun and Li Daqi ended for six years, while the relationship between Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing ended for more than ten years. Not every couple is Carina Lau and Tony Leung Chiu Wai. "

The older you get, the more you want to get married.

In this survey in jiayuan:

Nearly 40% (38.54%) of people under 30 said

1-2 years is more suitable for marriage;

Only 23% of people over 30 agree, and among them

Most of them voted "within six months to a year".

In this regard, jiayuan CEO Gong Haiyan explained: "30 years old is a threshold. Single men and women over the age of 30 have stronger wishes and ideas about marriage than those under the age of 30. Therefore, they are more serious and spend more time when looking for a partner. After confirming the basic situation of the other party, it is possible to talk about marriage. "

I used to be an older woman, that is, "the older I get, the more I want to get married." I was almost 30 when I got married, and he was over 30. We got the license within a few months of knowing each other in Jiayuan, which is a standard' flash marriage'. When I am in love, I feel, ah, the other person is the one I am looking for. His experience, moral character, personality and even IQ fully meet my criteria for choosing a spouse. The students all said that we were' the old house caught fire and burned very fast'. "

3. Why are some people in a hurry to get married after six months of love, and some people get married after two years of love, which is not enough?

Hello, I don't think the degree of love is judged by when you get married. Actually, I think it has something to do with feelings and conditions. Many people have been in love for many years. Can you say you don't love it? Who wants to be with you all the time? Don't fall in love and waste each other's youth? I don't think it's because I don't get married, but because I think I'm not mentally prepared for my family. I have to change a lot after I get married. I may feel that I can't afford it at present, so I will think more about it.

As for those flash marriages, you can't say that they must not have thought clearly. Many flash marriages may indeed be a whim, but many have also considered getting married, so I think the time of marriage should not be equal to the degree of love.

4. Is two years in love suitable for marriage, too long or too short?

Several stages of love:

1. The first stage: puppy love.

About three months after the two sides feel good about each other and establish a relationship. At this time, both men and women have feelings after seeing each other, and their hearts will accelerate. Men and women began to pay attention to personal image, especially in terms of dress, and both sides attached great importance to it. At this stage, two people have feelings for each other, but they are not familiar with each other. They are both polite and shy. Holding hands can be exciting for several days, and physical contact slowly begins. This stage usually ends with a skilled kiss.

2. The second stage: love period

During this period, the two became very familiar, and they had physical contact, such as hugging and kissing. At this time, the brains of both men and women will secrete a lot of hormones, and the feelings of both sides will continue to deepen. In this period, men and women are inseparable and don't want to be apart for a minute. It's like being separated from Sanqiu for a minute. It's a pledge of eternal love, and no one can separate each other. Moreover, there are more phone messages from both sides, all kinds of sweet words. Conservative couples will have marginal sex, while open couples will have direct sex. This stage usually lasts for 3 to 6 months, and there will be differences of opinion and quarrels in the later stage of love, which will end in a fierce quarrel or cold war.

3. The third stage: cooling-off period (also called running-in period)

Just as midsummer and autumn are bound to come, both sides have completely calmed down and lost their curiosity and freshness. The shortcomings of the other side also began to be exposed, and different contradictions of each other's personalities began to appear. At this point, the number of WeChat chats of couples has dropped sharply. Although they still care about each other, they are more mature, and the frequency of quarrels will continue to increase during this period. At this time, both of them began to have practical plans and began to plan their future houses, careers and jobs. During this period, the contradiction between their own ideas and personalities became more prominent, and their shortcomings became more obvious. Many couples break up at this time. This period usually lasts about half a year, and finally ends with mutual honesty.

4. The fourth stage: maturity

After a cooling-off period, if both sides can tolerate each other's shortcomings, personality is not a problem, and they still have a good impression on each other, they will begin to mature. During this period, the two were no longer as blind and romantic as they were in love, but both were very mature, and made great progress in dealing with people's etiquette and life, and began to consider problems for both sides. There were occasional quarrels during this period, but they soon made up. Ordinary lovers will choose to meet their parents and get married during this period.