The engagement date in Qingdao is now generally decided by both parents through consultation.
On the day of engagement, the groom should bring an engagement ring, gifts (also called engagement money), two red envelopes, two red belts, at least two sets of clothes (cotton-padded jacket is needed, as the saying goes, mother-in-law's coat is passed down to the old) and six small ones. The woman's family should prepare a new pair of shoes for the man (called husband's shoes).
According to different personal economic conditions, the gift money usually ranges from 1000 1 yuan-100000 yuan. The exact amount is discussed by both parents before the engagement, and then the South gives the woman a passbook.
Small six samples include: six pounds of meat (full line), six fish (yellow croaker), six bottles of wine, six pounds of sugar (six boxes are ok), six pounds of vermicelli (tied with red line) and six pounds of snacks (six boxes are ok).
Each of the above items (except meat, as the saying goes, a daughter is the meat on her mother's body, and she is reluctant to give it to others) will generally be returned to the man's house by the woman's house, with two to four copies each.
According to personal preference, the bride had better choose an engagement ring in advance.
It is reasonable to say that cotton-padded jacket and noodles can't be worn, but if you have reasonable and elegant attention, take it to the bottom of the box.
Two red bags and two red belts.
On the day of engagement, the groom and parents come to the bride's house with a bride price. The bride's house should prepare tea, snacks, fruits or dried fruits for entertainment. It is best to find a third party to host the engagement day, and it is best to have experienced and expressive people to adjust the atmosphere.
Usually before noon, the man's house will go to the woman's house to chat. At this time, the bride and groom will change their names to call their parents and offer them tea. At this time, parents will give the prepared red envelopes (also change fees) to the bride and groom respectively, which generally ranges from 2,000 yuan in 600 yuan according to the economic situation.
The bride's family should go to a hotel with a better grade and environment in advance to book a banquet and invite the man's family to dinner. After dinner, the man's family will return home before sunset.
When the man leaves the woman's house, the woman should return the two samples (except meat) sent by the man to the man. And give the man a certain deposit.
This is the so-called return.
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Wedding planning
1 Decide the date, place, ceremony and method of the wedding.
Make a wedding budget
3. Draft the guest list (first draft)
4. Gather good friends to discuss the wedding plan.
5. Determine the best man, bridesmaid and flower girl.
6. Determine the host and witnesses.
7. Set up the wedding preparation group (define the division of labor of the preparation group)
8 Make a wedding project plan
Wedding banquet:
1 Estimated number of tourists
2 estimate the number of banquets
3 Choose a wedding venue
Confirm the menu and price of the banquet.
5. Confirm the sound effects at the wedding reception.
6. Coordinate with the hotel on wedding arrangements and other details.
note:
1 Send a happy post to friends and family.
Call relatives and friends in other places
Publish personals on the Internet
4 timely feedback the invited information of relatives and friends.
5 reconfirm for important relatives and friends
Procurement:
1 wedding supplies order (wedding stickers, red envelopes, happy characters)
Ribbons, flowers, spray)
Buy wedding ring jewelry
3 buy bride cosmetic
Buy cigarettes, wine and drinks.
Buy sugar, peanuts, melon seeds and tea.
6. Buy videos and movies.
7 books and flowers
8 book a cake
9 buy fruit
10 Buy clothes for parents, groomsmen, bridesmaids and flower girl.
Wedding dress:
1 Jessica Hester Hsuan Wedding Studio
2 take a wedding photo
3 Appointment shooting date
4 take pictures
5 movie selection
6 printing or inkjet printing
Take a wedding photo album.
Buy or rent a wedding dress
9 making wedding music movies
Beautiful:
1 bride and groom image preparation
The bride began to take care of her skin.
3 The groom cuts his hair
Communication:
1 Communicate with all project stakeholders of the wedding.
Communicate with parents about wedding planning and progress.
3. Re-confirm the client and witness.
Etiquette:
1 determine the etiquette company and the wedding host
Meet the emcee and talk about the wedding procedure.
3. Field investigation with wedding company personnel.
Step 4 choose wedding music
5 adjust the program plan
6 Wedding Makeup Appointment (with dress items)
7 Determine the makeup place and arrival time of the day.
8 Communicate with hair stylist and makeup artist again.
9 confirm the makeup flowers on the wedding day
10 Confirm the shape of the wedding day.
1 1 Wedding car reservation (for guests)
12 determine the number of wedding cars
13 make an appointment to tie the float.
14 to determine the color.
15 Confirm the style of the bouquet float.
16 Determine the driving route and required time of the wedding car on the wedding day.
17 wedding photography booking arrival time and preparation before shooting
18 Prepare photographic equipment, films and videos.
Others:
1 change new banknotes
Prepare guest rooms for friends and relatives from afar.
3 determine honeymoon arrangements