Recently, a friend of mine came to me to complain, saying, "I'm afraid I'm going to break up with Lao Liu, and our marriage ended before it started." I was puzzled because my friend and her old Liu are famous for their love. She seemed to tell me with a depressed face: "It is really impossible to get married."
I have been with Lao Liu for five years, and now everyone's work is very stable. It is time to decide to get married. Ben has decided to get a license next month. Before getting the license, we discussed it and arranged for our parents to have dinner together at the hotel on weekend nights.
The day before dinner, my parents and I discussed it at home. As you know, our family is not particularly rich. Liu's parents are both in business, so naturally they are much better than our family.
Faced with this problem, although our family is a little inferior, we still have to give the bride price, so my parents' attitude is only to give a reasonable amount, set at 80 thousand.
At the dinner table that day, my parents told the old Liu family the number of bride price, and my father also said, "We still pay 20 thousand." Liu's family also agreed with this decision.
Until the wedding day, the wedding car, relatives and friends, sisters and brothers all arrived. Lao Liu's parents gave my parents a bride price, and it turned out to be 66 thousand, because 80 thousand is not pleasant to listen to, and 66 thousand has a good meaning
At that time, my parents felt that the dignity of our family was seriously frustrated and that our daughter was worthless. Since they didn't respect our family so much, we didn't refund the 20 thousand gift. When Liu learned that, he didn't even call "mom and dad" when he offered tea, but only called "uncle and aunt".
Hearing this, my parents became even more angry: "What? Even parents are afraid to scream? Still want to be my son-in-law? "
"How can a person who doesn't keep his word deserve to be my parents?"
"It seems that your family can't even write the word' respect', so they consciously changed the number of bride price."
"We feel extraordinary? I don't think your family deserves our family! I am willing to marry your daughter just because you are poor, which is good. "
"I've seen a lot of people like you who are empty-handed, so don't get married."
In this way, our wedding ended in discord.
"What disappoints me most is that we have been together for five years. Am I really not worthy of their complete 80 thousand bride price in his heart? I am really disappointed! "
The bride price may not be the most important, but it can reflect the importance that the man's family attaches to the woman.
Because money gives up his girlfriend who has been with him for many years, money can easily replace the feelings for many years, except that the man thinks that the woman is not worth it. Men are more realistic than women. They can be rational or terrible. They always want to marry a good wife with the least bride price. White wolves with empty gloves seem to be their usual means.
Therefore, women should keep the clearest head in the face of love. Many things can be exposed in front of the bride price, because money can always induce sincerity!