In fact, this is beyond reproach. From the moment the bride gives the bridesmaid a red envelope, we can see that the relationship between the bride and the bridesmaid is the closest, and keeping the red envelope for her is the most reassuring. But there is a better way to reflect the feelings of the new couple and solve their parents' worries, and that is to give the red envelope to the groom who is more intimate than the bridesmaid. When the bride turns to give the red envelope to the groom, this little gesture in detail shows the intimate relationship between you and the groom to the maximum extent, and at the same time, it will make parents feel that the two are close, and their money is not shared by you and me. Leave this wonderful impression to other parents, why not leave it to the newcomers? A: I can give my mother-in-law a pillow. I hope my mother-in-law can rest easy. It means you can safely give his son to you. The old man has worked hard for your marriage for a long time and can have a good rest. It can be a shirt for my father-in-law, indicating that my in-laws are very satisfied with you. The most common gifts for parents are chopsticks, scarves, thermal underwear and other warm gifts. Some newcomers also send cups and cushions, indicating that they can rely on them all their lives. Cushions can be made of cotton satin, father and son or birthday characters. For example, embroider a cross by hand. You can also make your childhood photos into an album and give them to others. In fact, the most important gift for the elderly is to express gratitude, not necessarily something valuable, such as writing a letter, writing down what you want to say most on the wedding day and reading it to your in-laws and parents on the spot. I believe it is the warmest and most touching. A: Give a red envelope; First of all, the delivery time is particular. As a symbol of celebration, the best time to send a red envelope is to sign your name in the sign-in book, shake hands with the couple, take a group photo and hand over the red envelope, and attach a blessing message, just right. Of course, there are times when it is sent out in advance. For example, some relatives and friends came to the scene early to help. These people can be sent out before the wedding. Late delivery is not recommended. On the one hand, it destroys the scenery, on the other hand, it also has some casual taste. Secondly, it is best to negotiate the name on the red envelope, and don't write it, which is easy to cause trouble. There is also a red envelope that needs to be "suitable". No big bags or small bags. Not good-looking, it is easy to make people feel "atmospheric"; It is best to choose clean bills before, and be sure to check the authenticity in advance, which will cause unnecessary misunderstanding. Receive red envelopes: naturally, you should smile when you receive money, but it is impolite to count money in front of guests. The best way is for one person to receive the gift, mark the guest's name when receiving it, and then give it to another person to take it to the lounge for careful inventory. When you hold a red envelope in your hand in front of the guests, don't inadvertently measure the thickness of the red envelope, which is as impolite as counting gifts in person. When the gift given by the guest is not the right size and can't be worn on the spot, it is really inappropriate to put it aside if it is expressed in trust. In this case, trust can be said humorously: "I will take this as a family heirloom and give it to my future daughter when she gets married."