There are two happy events in a year, which is called "happy event rush" in Feng Shui. In other words, the same family has two happy events in a year, so these two happy events will collide and bring unlucky influence to people. Generally speaking, this kind of influence is aimed at newcomers and may have an impact on their later lives.
Taboos for brothers to get married in the same year:
Some places say that brothers can't get married in the same year, but it's easy to get married. People who get married first will marry those who get married later, especially in the aspect of having children, which can easily lead to people who get married after pregnancy, even if they get married, they can't keep it. Therefore, in a family, it is best not to get married more than twice a year.
The taboo of brother and sister getting married in the same year;
If the biological brothers and sisters in the family get married in the same year, there are usually some taboos. If two brothers get married in the same year, many people think that the person who gets married later may surpass the person who got married before, which will affect a person's fortune. Therefore, brothers usually hold happy events every other year. For brother and sister, there are some different stresses. Generally, people get married first, and people get married later.
People in some areas think that if a brother and sister have a happy event in the same year, they get married first, so the daughter who gets married later may take away her family's property. If the daughter married first and the son married a new wife, there would be no such worry. In addition, it is generally not necessary to have a one-year interval, and it is best to hold a happy event every four months.
One-year marriage taboo for brother and sister:
Some brothers can't get married in the same year, so there is a problem getting married in the same year. One is based on the scruples of "smiling" and easy to make mistakes. Second, in many rural customs, the principle of marriage first is followed. Therefore, if brother and sister get married in the same year, the elder sister gets married first, and then the younger brother gets married. For a sister and a brother, it is best for the sister to get married first, and then the brother to get married. Otherwise, it will also lead to bad luck for people who get married after marriage.
How long does it take to get married?
1, double happiness takes four months.
The elders will believe that if they don't marry two daughters every four months, there will be a happy saying. If the daughter is lucky and the son is poor, those who are unlucky may encounter more obstacles. The worst thing is that both sides lose, and the woman becomes a big loser! There is even a practice that people who get married first cannot attend the wedding of those who get married later.
2. Get married first and then get married.
I have a daughter and a son at home and want to get married at the same time. Usually get married first and then get married. Because "marriage" is equivalent to taking away the wealth and joy at home, and "marriage" is to bring in wealth and joy. If you get married first and then, you will take away all the wealth and happiness that your family has just brought, which is very unlucky.
It is common to tie the knot.
1. Newcomers don't attend the wedding
Newly married couples can't attend the wedding in a short period of time. How long is it? Every family has different habits and customs. I suggest you ask the other person and your elders first when you receive the invitation.
2. Wedding car collision
On the way to the wedding, it means happiness when the limousine meets the limousine. It is customary to think that the joy of one family will be taken away by another. In ancient society, if two sedan chairs met, the matchmakers of both sides would exchange the flowers worn by the bride or the flowers prepared in advance, which could be resolved, and the brides of both sides could not meet each other.