After marriage speech composition 1 At this time, I returned to the cottage rented by Shangqiu. Everything was the same as before, as if I was still in class yesterday, and the wedding leave had just begun, not to mention that I had married the fox to my home.
My wife, while making the bed, muttered: Why do you think the bed is small when you come back? I think it may be because I slept in a new bed in my hometown. After the house you bought is delivered, everything must start with "new".
When I think about the wedding life from the first day to the ninth day, I can still remember it vividly: accompanying the fox home, taking wedding photos, entertaining guests in Shangqiu, booking a car at a friend's house in Xiayi County, entertaining guests in my hometown, getting married, "returning home" and "calling for eighteen days", and sending Sir Zhong back to Luoyang in Shangqiu. There are many feelings and memories every day. I originally planned to record them every day, but the moment of celebration always filled every space in my life. It will take me a whole time to show this sweetness to my pen and make it the wealth of my life.
I'm going to work tomorrow, and I feel a lot of things are ready for me to do. It's a little stressful. I want to give up teaching in a class several times during this period. Besides being busy getting married, there is another very important thing (business) that I need to do, and I must do my best. I just don't have time to think about it. I'm really stressed!
Marriage has added a concern and a responsibility to my life. I want to make a simple plan for my life, and I want to make clear my future goals.
Since I got married, I have often said three words to myself-
The first sentence: Go your own way and pay more attention to politics.
It is my own choice to come to the experimental primary school for education. Whether I am bitter or happy, I have no regrets. At present, every step I take here is solid. Although some of them are bitter, I also won fragrant flowers and warm applause. Then, how far I can go in the future journey depends on myself. I try to know myself, know myself and overcome myself. I always tell myself that there are no enemies in my life. If there is, it must be myself, so I am surpassing it every day.
I have been reading reports about the "two sessions" these days and paying attention to the national election. This is politics, which used to be considered a big deal, and it has nothing to do with me. But now I think China people should pay more attention to politics, because unlike other capitalist countries such as the United States, China is engaged in multi-party competition. We practice one-party dominance and multi-party cooperation, and this party is the China Producer Party, so we must always pay attention to it.
The second sentence: take care of your family.
I now have a home, a warm family, and a wife I love, so I have an obligation to run this home well. Men play an important role in the family. Whether Fox can get along with me and my family in the future is mainly me. Running a family needs art, just like our education and teaching. It is a living art, I have confidence in myself! I believe that the members of our family will be very harmonious and democratic!
The third sentence: do your own business.
Occupation, in my eyes, is not just a job of making a living. In addition to meeting my material needs, my career in my heart should also make my spiritual world more beautiful, clear, agile and kind. I want to do my own thing well. I can't live up to my inner hopes and longings. I can't lose the pursuit of truth. Otherwise, I will no longer be Song Wu.
My career is my shadow. How terrible it is when I can't find my own shadow!
I keep these three sentences firmly in mind, which is not only the goal of my future efforts, but also a warning to myself. It's easy to achieve these three points. "Without accumulation, there will be a thousand miles", which only requires daily accumulation and diligent pursuit, but it may take more to do well.
I have been married for more than a year unconsciously, but it feels like a long time, hehe! ! Maybe it's because two people are too familiar with each other!
To tell the truth, why do I suddenly feel that I might as well not get married, because I find that people can be changed more and more. We met in college. Perhaps at the beginning, the way we got along with each other in our student days was leisurely and idealistic. Once in real life, I always feel that there is something missing in life.
I'm not saying I'm unhappy. In fact, in a sense, I am already very happy. I don't lack anything, but I always feel empty
Maybe I haven't transitioned from the romantic atmosphere of my school days, maybe I'm too demanding, but I always feel that two people should get along romantically, because there is still a long way to go after all. If I am so realistic all my life, I will feel that life is boring!
Others say that two people with complementary personalities can live together well, but I always feel that their lifestyles must have something in common, especially their personalities. If two people have no common interests, there will be differences and even contradictions in real life!
Some people say that "marriage is the grave of love". I don't agree with this sentence at all, because I think two people live together because of love. No one said they knew it was a grave and got married. Since we are together, it must be the one who wants happiness, and I will pursue happiness all my life. So in my later life, I am willing to use all my strength to manage my happiness and love my husband!
I believe I will live happily! Come on!
After marriage, I finally got married. Although we haven't had a wedding yet, we have already got a license. So, I am already a married woman. I still feel a little sad when I think about it. After all, the days of freedom are gone forever. However, when I think that I have a home, a husband who loves me, and a goal and direction to strive for, my heart is very practical.
Marriage will really change people's temperament. Those impetuous moods rarely seem to appear in the past. As long as I think I'm married, I won't do many things, I won't care too much about other men's opinions, and I won't consider whether to change my boyfriend. Marriage is a sacred spirit, a symbol of responsibility, and marriage is not a child's play.
I have read Fortress Besieged by Mr. Qian Zhongshu several times, and I deeply understand the feelings of people outside marriage, but in any case, we all have to go through such a process, just like every step of life, without which we are incomplete. Therefore, I am also moving forward step by step with anxiety, both excited and scared. I'm really worried that I can't take on so many responsibilities, but I really hope I can be more mature and have a really happy life. So, my husband and I walked into the city of marriage. Even if the road to marriage is really so dull, even if we try our best to survive the three-year itch and seven-year pain, I am fearless. After all, everything is like this. We must follow the law of balance. It is precisely because of these inevitable pains in marriage that those sweet parts are sweeter. It is more worthy of our pursuit.
The most important change after marriage is that I suddenly have many relatives, and his relatives have become my relatives. I feel very warm, and I am very happy that so many people care about me.
Although I don't know whether I can be a good wife for my husband or a good daughter-in-law for my parents-in-law, I will try my best not to disappoint my loved ones who care about me and love me. Hehe, I also believe I can do it well.
Let's stop here. My thoughts are still a little difficult to express. I can only write a few words. Many feelings can only be truly understood by personal experience. In a word, I think marriage is a happy and sweet thing, and I am also happy to enjoy married life. I wish all lovers in the world can come to the end, and I wish all my friends a happy life!