1, the first thing to know is how many bride price customs the woman is located in.
2, the woman's parents must first abandon some old ideas, such as: not betrothal daughter will make her husband's family look down; Don't even think that the higher the bride price, the more noble the daughter looks. Be sure to remember that your daughter will always be priceless!
3. The woman's parents don't charge exorbitant prices. After the children start a family, they still need some money to live. If the wedding expenses are too high, you will be heavily in debt after marriage.
Don't think that the man's unwillingness to accept the bride price is a sign that he doesn't love you enough or is incapable. At this time, the woman should also think of the man.
For the man, if the woman's parents insist on a lot of bride price, the smartest way is to pull her girlfriend to her side and ask her parents to fulfill your love together.
6. Never hear a woman break her mouth after counting: Are you selling your daughter? Because no parents would want to hear such words.
What's the point of sending a bride price to a woman's house?
1. When will the bride price be sent?
The time to send the bride price is usually at the time of engagement, and both parents are present. This is not very mandatory, as long as it is before marriage.
2. How should the bride price be sent?
Giving a bride price is also giving a bride price. It is not appropriate to take money out directly, and it will usually be distributed together. Such as: a pork knife, two chickens, three pieces of gold jewelry and a bride price. The above can be matched according to your local wedding customs.
3. How much is the bride price?
Don't touch the wedding ceremony, and don't touch the bride price and gift money. It is better to have some auspicious numbers such as 21800,68000, etc. It depends on the man's family situation.
Who will give the bride price to the man?
1, Parents: Now many couples who are in free love have no matchmaker, so it's time for their parents to do it for them. Both parents cook dinner together and then give the bride price money to the woman's parents.
2. Matchmaker: If there is a matchmaker between lovers, then the bride price is generally sent by the matchmaker, which is the responsibility of the matchmaker.
3. Elders: If the couple's hometown is far apart, it is ok to remove the elders who are close to the man's home and bring the man to the woman's house with a bride price.
Marriage is a happy event, so we should pay more attention to details, especially wedding customs. Therefore, we must be prepared before giving the bride price and know what some bride price is in advance. If the reason for giving the bride price affects each other's feelings, that's not good. These are the key points of bride price arranged by Bian Xiao.