In our country, marriage means war at home. I say this because today's wedding process is really complicated, with many steps and many details to take care of.
First of all, a few days before the wedding, the bride should get up early in the morning to make up. If she didn't have a good rest the night before, people would feel very tired. The bride gets up early and the groom is not idle. The groom should bring the motorcade, what he should bring on the wedding day, and then pick up the bride. If it's close, it's only a few minutes' drive. If it's far away, it may take several hours for the groom, so they have to leave early.
However, this is only the beginning. When the groom goes to pick up relatives, it will take a long time to get in. Although this is only a procedure, it is actually very energy-consuming. After going through five customs and beheading six generals, a couple enters the wedding hall, and the bride needs to constantly change clothes and make up. Moreover, the man's and the woman's family should also arrange guests to sit at the table and distribute accompanying gifts. What new people want to do when they come to power, they have to dock with the host. Things are messy and complicated. If you don't pay attention, you may make mistakes.
In fact, getting married is not tiring, but the wedding process and complicated steps will make people feel very tired. If the step of picking up the bride is omitted, the wedding ceremony can be simplified, and the woman does not have to welcome guests. The arrangement may be much simpler and less chaotic. Newcomers can hold a small ceremony and then invite everyone to a restaurant for dinner.