Because of the circle, most of my married friends fell in love at school, chose the same city at work, and then got married almost at the same time.

Still the same company, like each other, and then fall in love and get married.

I don't know if there is love and hate on TV. I don't watch much.

Love is sometimes very simple, like each other, accompany each other, live together for a long time, get a certificate together, and accept the blessings of relatives and friends.

Most modern young people go to new cities together to work hard. They all say that marriage is a combination of two families, but it has always been little influenced by the family of origin.

Falling in love but not getting married is often because I am lazy and don't want to enter the next stage of my life.

Moreover, a large number of people are still thinking about not getting married and are not looking forward to getting married, so they will not be obsessed with getting married.

In the final analysis, most of us don't know why we want to get married, because our parents forced us to get married, so this is probably not the answer we want.

Many times, I don't think marriage is a sign of success in life.

We all get married because we love someone, not to get married.

If you get married for the sake of marriage, it is not only difficult, but also painful.

From the beginning to the finale, I still have something to say about it.

Who says I can't get married? It's doomed

The whole play revolves around the love and marriage of three working women. From the beginning of "I can't get married, but I don't want to get married" to the marriage of lovers, this long-distance love run has been ups and downs with the wedding of Ding Shiya and Zhou Chenyu.

Why is it a doomed ending? In fact, their lives are the same as those of most people in reality. Only after experiencing this kind of experience will you understand what is most important.

Lu Cheng * * * has four relationships, one is the first love he likes for many years, the other is small fresh meat, and the other is a married man he met on a blind date. Although these three people all loved her, they all weighed the gains and losses and didn't understand her or him. The other is Shu Wei, who has been with her. From fighting to mutual love, they have come a long way, perhaps because of Lu Cheng's insistence, perhaps the first paragraph of Shu Wei.

Lawyer Hehai was a childhood friend. From colleagues and partners in the workplace to lifelong partners, they have experienced quarrels and suspicions to mutual trust, and let go of their prejudices.

Ding Shiya and Zhou Chenyu: The love of the rich second generation, they are the first married couple. Like every couple, they will be awkward and their personalities need to be adjusted. The rich second generation who started doing nothing is willing to change themselves for Ding Shiya. Ding Shiya is also willing to propose. It took all kinds of obstacles to achieve positive results.

It's not easy to get married, because it's not easy to find the right person, and it's even harder to get married with this right person, so it takes a lot of hardships to be together until we get old.

I hope my answer can help you.

Ding Shiya and Zhou Chenyu's wedding, Lin Zhongxin sent a greeting card to Ding Shiya. Tian Lei stood beside Ding Shiya and encouraged her to cheer for her. The wedding officially began. Tian Lei and Xu Haifeng are groomsmen and bridesmaids. Zhou Chenyu came holding Ding Shiya's hand leisurely, and friends and relatives were on both sides, applauding them together. Tian Lei cried happily, and Xu Haifeng tried to comfort her. Zhou Chenyu took the ring in Xu Haifeng's hand and put it on Ding Shiya's hand. She shouted "Ding Shiya, I love you" and promised to be with Ding Shiya. Ding Shiya also thanked him, and the two kissed affectionately.

Lu Cheng and Shu Wei saw this happy moment, and they smiled at each other. Lu Cheng snuggled up in the arms of digital characters and smiled contentedly. Soon, Lu Cheng and Shu Wei, Tian Lei and Xu Haifeng also got married. They fell in love happily and lived a simple and warm life.

Xu Haifeng: What's wrong with you? You are crying. You don't want to get married, do you?

Tian Lei: How can I get married now? I just started my business. What if I have children? I still have to earn money to buy milk powder. Does the child want to go to a prestigious school?

Xu Haifeng: Do you really have to wait until you have a house, a car and a ticket to get married? Don't you think it's too late? The most important thing in marriage is to have sincere feelings With feelings, no matter how difficult the life is, two people can bear it together. It is wonderful to have someone willing to accompany you through the last moment of your life.

Maybe marriage should not be considered too much. If you want to meet too many requirements, everything will be unpleasant. When meeting different needs, there will be unnecessary disputes. At this time, love is sad.

Sometimes love is a rope that you desperately want to catch. After you catch it, you will find that this is what you want. The tighter you hold it, the more secure you feel.

I wish you happiness in your later years!

First of all, the ending: good.

1. With the encouragement of two girlfriends, Shiya proposed to Zhou Chenyu.

2. Tian Lei and Xu Haifeng started a business together.

Lu Cheng and Shu Wei finally came together.

The ending is still good.

How difficult is it from falling in love to getting married? The subject probably asked this question after watching the play, haha.

It's a TV series, and naturally there are twists and turns, otherwise it's not worth watching.

It's different in real life.

Some people from love to marriage, only 10 days and a half, not difficult, very smooth.

From love to marriage, there are also five years and six years, 10 years and eight years.

Of course there are two or three years.

Every couple has a different experience.

Forget the easy part. Give an example to show how difficult it is.

I saw a story on the internet the other day and said something like this.

His girlfriend of five years finally decided to get married next year.

In the past five years, they have been on and off, and they often quarrel about some trivial things in life. Once his girlfriend broke up with him suddenly, and he couldn't get over it and wanted to commit suicide. Fortunately, someone stopped him and did not cause a tragedy.

However, they broke up and found boyfriends and girlfriends respectively. After being apart for a long time, we both felt better, so we separated from each other's new partner, they regrouped, and then split up again soon.

Until this year, they were forced by their families to find blind dates, and they all found them, and they found a lot. But both of them thought it was better than the original, so they discussed it and got back together.

Marathon is coming to an end. They are getting married, too. Bless them.

Say two digressions: men and women, whether they are in love or married, have already loved each other, so they should be single-minded. Single-mindedness is respect for your lover and yourself. If one party is not single-minded, love or marriage may end. Not exclusive, but looking for novelty and excitement. This feeling is that everyone likes it, you like it, and your other half likes it. One person's infidelity may ruin love or marriage, not to mention two people looking for excitement at the same time.

Finally, share a word that has been hidden in my heart for many years: a heart can only belong to one person, otherwise it will be torn to pieces and a river of blood will flow. ...

I think the finale of Who says I can't get married is just like the sentiment shared by Tan Ya, the star of Lu Cheng, on the Internet: love is a choice, not an accident. I will talk about my own views on "How difficult it is to fall in love and get married":

1, love is not only the choice of marriage, marriage must be the expression of the result of love.

Some people say that marriage is the insurance of love; Some people say that marriage is the grave of love. I believe everyone has his own answer to this question. The process of love is often the most inclusive. There are sweet happiness, suspicion and anger along the way. People who come to the end hope to announce their success through marriage, but what is more important in love is growth and happiness, tolerance and understanding. If the foundation of love is not strong enough, then nature will not bear fruit, even if it does, but what about the fruit?

In the TV series, Tian Lei once said: In all the scenery where things are transformed, what I like best is success, and giving up marriage is the shortcut to success. When she met Xu Haifeng again and fell in love, it was Xu Haifeng who taught her to pursue love, trust and fulfill, which was also her highlight moment.

What brings two people together is affection, not marriage.

In today's society, many people choose unsuitable people to enter the marriage hall because they can't bear the pressure of family and society. As a result, it is conceivable that without a strong emotional foundation as the backing, the odds and ends of married life can easily crush marriage, and there are many such examples around me.

Lu Cheng, who wanted to get married in the TV series, got a sentence after getting along with Xiao Ha, which didn't interest me; Lin Zhongxin's wife, who got married for her career, has only herself to blame: Shu Wei's love with formulas and theorems also ended in divorce.

What has real feelings is: Zhou Chenyu left her mother's care for her lover, thus having her own career; Producer Zhou remembered all the benefits of her husband, so he reflected on his behavior and finally saved his marriage.

To sum up, everyone is not perfect. Only two people truly understand each other, tolerate each other and love each other, then love has the reason to finally get married.

I am a movie fan 527, thanks for reading!

Recently, there is no shortage of dramas discussing women's issues in the TV drama market. Besides discussing women's rights and female inspiration, marriage is also a hot topic. The just-concluded Who Says I Can't Get Married is one. The story is about three women with good feelings. From being single to finding their own love, they gradually grow and change on the road of pursuing love.

At the end of the TV series, Tian, Shi Ya and three sisters, only Ding Shiya got married. Some people may think that getting married together is not a big scene, and some people may think that it is a blank space, but perhaps this is what the TV series really wants to convey. "Married or not, it's not that important. The feeling is very simple, that is, two people want to be together. "

First of all, we may all be Lu Cheng.

It is reported that in 20 18, the national marriage rate was 7.2‰. From 1990 to 20 15, the national census marriage rate has been declining. Apart from the fact that more people have the ability and courage to choose a single life or get married under social pressure, perhaps the most important reason in this movie is themselves.

The heroine of this play is played by Tanya as Lu Cheng. 34 years old, unmarried. She is afraid of being told that she is 35 years old. On the surface, she chose not to get married. In fact, every relationship of her own is going to get married.

Some people think she is stupid, others like her, and she can't see it, but she can thoroughly understand the feelings of her sisters. She just doesn't think luck will be her own. Some people think that her emotional intelligence is very low and she is always saying inappropriate things, but will the high emotional intelligence account for the majority in our life? Some people think that she can do nothing but write articles, but she has a mother who loves her and helps her take care of her life.

In the eyes of many people, "34-year-old silly daytime" always seems to see her own shadow, and her "rotten peach blossom" is also very familiar: reunited with the boys she missed when she was young, but was rejected; I met a straight man who was a little narcissistic and speechless, and finally I got angry. I am very happy with my little boyfriend, but I find myself completely different from young people, but fortunately the person I like is in the dim light.

Compared with Tian Lei, a professional woman, Lu Cheng is not a heroine, but an ordinary person. She is a person who can attract people's attention. She is a real person, stupid, with low emotional intelligence, few life skills, and her love life is not smooth, just like many people are not so perfect and have various shortcomings. Unfortunately, her love life is also very bad.

Many people don't choose to be single by themselves, sometimes it's their own reasons, such as Lu Cheng's devotion to marriage and loss of self, Tian Lei's self-confidence that he doesn't need a man, Ding Shiya's lack of self-confidence and doubt, and Shu Wei's initiative to isolate feelings.

Second, marriage should not be the only choice in the result of love.

Whether marriage is emotional insurance or emotional grave, every couple has their own answer. The process of love is often the most inclusive. There will be sweet happiness and flowers on the way, but there will also be suspicion and anger. Everyone who comes to the end hopes to have a ceremony to announce his success to the world, but the result of love should not only be marriage, but also growth and happiness.

Some people say that Tian Lei has a way to use her best friend, but what she does never hurts her sister. She just trapped love rat in other ways, without many gentle words, but she will tell you what the truth is and how cruel the reality is.

She once said, "in all the scenery where things have changed, what I like best is success, and giving up marriage is the shortcut to success." But when she met Xu Haifeng again and fell in love with her other half, that was her highlight moment. It was Xu Haifeng who taught her to pursue love, trust and fulfill.

Cinderella Ding Shiya lived for Lin Zhongxin for six years, but only after she met Zhou Chenyu did she know that one should love others and not live for others. She took the initiative to accept Zhou Chenyu, and she decided to quit her job to do what she liked. In the eyes of many people, she is the happiest one

Third, it is affection, not marriage, that can bring two people together.

The pressure of society and the urging of elders make people feel that marriage can be temporarily relaxed, but the hasty consequences are often countless problems. Putting the cart before the horse is not happiness. What brings two people together is affection, not marriage.

Li Wenjie, the suitor of Lu Cheng, talks about marriage every day, which makes people feel uncomfortable. Lu Cheng is committed to getting along with Xiao Ha in the direction of marriage. In exchange, as long as I am not interested, Lin Zhongxin will only blame his new wife for his career. Shu Wei's love for formulas and theorems ended in divorce.

What really exists is that Lu Cheng and Shu Wei bravely pursue love. Zhou Chenyu began to leave her mother's protection for her lover and had her own career. Xu Youdao and Tingting are very sweet together. Producer Zhou remembered her husband's kindness and began to reflect on his behavior, saving his marriage.

Who says I can't get married is not about selling leftover women, nor about teaching people how to fall in love, nor about teaching people communication skills as a psychology professor in Shu Wei. But in the process of pursuing love with three women, you can find your familiar side in them in your busy life.

I'm telling you, everyone is not perfect. It doesn't matter whether you are married or not. The feeling is very simple, that is, two people want to be together, and what can make two people together is emotion, not marriage.

In fact, there are classmates or friends around me who are not married. Personally, I think it is my choice whether to get married or not, just like some people choose to have a second child and some people choose Dink. There is nothing wrong with this in itself.

I've seen it recently. Who said you can't get married? Three girls with different personalities have their own choices when facing love. Perhaps in the secular eyes, you should get married when you are old, and what you should do when you are old, otherwise you are different, but in fact, marriage is the most suitable time for anyone.

Who says I can't get married? Finally, all three found their own homes. Shiya got married, and Tian Lei also started a business with Xu Haifeng. Although she was struggling to get married at the beginning of her business, I think it was only a matter of time. It's just a matter of time. Isn't it the same to get married as long as you are with the right person? Lu Cheng consults Shu Wei every time he encounters emotional problems, but he never knows that the right person is always around.

Isn't life about running around and finally finding the right person? Whether you are in a hurry or not, whether it is time or not, everything is the best arrangement.

This drama is not to persuade people not to get married, nor is it a marriage drama that sells anxiety. All three people have performed well in their respective fields and have no hesitation in facing their feelings. They don't worry about getting married, just like their names. Who says I can't get married? I just don't want to get married yet.

Who says I can't get married tells the story of three women, Lu Cheng, Tian Lei and Ding Shiya, who are confused and entangled in the face of emotional life and workplace pressure, and closely follows the practical problems existing in society to explore the choice between women's work and marriage.

Judging from the current plot, "Who says I can't get married" is indeed a remarkable TV series, at least it has the desire to let the audience know the follow-up plot. Judging from the story that has been broadcast, the main line of "Who says I can't get married" is the love story of several starring actors. As for career and friendship, it will not affect the real plot development. From this perspective, "Who says I can't get married?"

1, Shu Wei proposed successfully.

Shu Wei, a university professor, is discussing the psychological activities of older single unmarried young women. Lu Cheng is one of her research objects, which is why they met. Shu Wei's ability in psychology is impeccable, and he has helped Lu Cheng solve difficult problems in work and love many times. Lu Cheng is a typical urban young woman. She fought for her career and chose to sacrifice her personal time until she was 34 years old. In order to get rid of this situation, Lu Cheng began to choose to participate in blind date, pursue first love, and even chose to use Shu Wei's "love psychology" to seek happiness for herself.

Although Lu Cheng didn't get rid of being single because of Shu Wei's help, with the continuous communication between them, the relationship gradually got closer. In fact, as can be seen from the stills, Lu Cheng in a wedding dress undoubtedly accepted Shu Wei's proposal.

Xu Haifeng and Tian Lei got married.

Xu Haifeng and Tian Lei were childhood friends. Of course, about this relationship, Tian Lei didn't admit it or she hasn't found it yet. In Tian Lei's eyes, love and marriage are stumbling blocks to her success, at least from the current plot. However, as Tian Lei faces the challenge of other lawyers alone, I believe Xu Haifeng can touch her heart. Between Xu Haifeng and Tian Lei, it seems that there are still some unknown possibilities, because Tian Lei's assistant expressed his affection for Xu Haifeng, and what kind of plot will happen between them is worth looking forward to.

Zhou Chenyu won Ding Shiya's favor.

After waiting for six years, Ding Shiya and others came to a married Lin Zhongxin. In Lin Zhongxin's eyes, love and marriage are only the stepping stones to his success, and Ding Shiya is by no means his best choice. Ding Shiya, who has been hit repeatedly, will naturally choose to let go, and Zhou Chenyu also appeared in Ding Shiya's life unconsciously. With a heart that loves Ding Shiya, he didn't regard Ding Shiya as a "tool", but he paid so sincerely. I believe that he will eventually impress Ding Shiya and win the beauty.

Compared with suspense drama and detective drama, urban drama is more transparent in the finale. After all, it needs to be linked to reality, so the plot reversal will not have much deviation. Basically, the audience can basically see the trend of the plot after reading half.

Who says I can't get married? It's neither a marriage drama nor an unmarried drama. This is more like a drama about choice. Women who advocate or advocate independence should really have marriage values, namely:

The point of this play from beginning to end is not that women should not get married. After all, over-encouraging singles to resist marriage is just the other extreme.

In the ending, the three women finally became active people, and they each gave their friends the courage to pursue love. Have a happy ending.

In the result of love, marriage should not be the only choice.

Whether marriage is emotional insurance or emotional grave, every couple has their own answer. The process of love is often the most inclusive. There will be sweet happiness and flowers on the way, but there will also be suspicion and anger. Everyone who comes to the end hopes to have a ceremony to announce his success to the world, but the result of love should not only be marriage, but also growth and happiness.

Most of the love in TV series is a happy ending, but in reality, not all love is so happy. Marriage is not just a matter for two people, but often involves two families. Your partner and his family are the people you want to spend your life with. Many two people have a good relationship and there is no contradiction, but they just can't handle the relationship between the two families well and finally go their separate ways. So the final marriage depends on the concept of two families and the ability of married people to deal with family conflicts.

This drama is not a marriage drama, nor an unmarried drama, but more like a TV drama about choice. Advocate women's independent marriage values, women have their own choices, they can be single or married. Girls can chase boys if they like them, and they don't need to care about the world. If they want to get married, they can propose to boys themselves, and women can take the initiative. In the end, the last three women became the initiative. They gave the girls in front of the TV the courage to pursue love. I really appreciate the ending of the screenwriter.