1, basic etiquette
When parents meet for the first time, they must respect the educational concept and atmosphere of the other family. Even if there are many conceptual gaps between in-laws, they can maintain a basic balance, at least in face. After all, if the in-laws are not good, the children will still be embarrassed, mishandled and even affect their feelings.
Step 2 introduce yourself
If it is the first time that two in-laws meet, it is necessary to introduce themselves. You can get to know it first, and don't worry about the wedding, so it's more convenient to discuss the wedding later, and it's best to be enthusiastic.
Step 3: Appropriate distance
The key to getting along with in-laws is to keep a proper distance. After all, you often get to know each other not because you have much in common and how good your relationship is, but because your children are together. Therefore, according to your own personality, it is most appropriate to keep a proper distance. You don't have to be close friends. It is good to be close in-laws.
Step 4 discuss business
When parents meet, they should not only exchange feelings, but also discuss their children's marriage, so after greeting and getting familiar, they can get down to business and discuss their children's affairs. What to say at this time mainly depends on the development of children's feelings, whether it is bride price, dowry or wedding preparation, or getting an engagement certificate, which can be decided according to the specific situation.