But there are still some people who will focus on the overall situation in order to achieve their own selfishness and goals. In their view, on such an important occasion, the other party will not ignore it and will naturally promise themselves. But people are not equal to heaven, not everyone is particularly easy to bully, and there will always be a rollover. If you meet someone who doesn't take your bait at all, you will steal the chicken and not eat the rice, which will not only make your abacus fail, but even make things worse. Shadow thinks, no matter when, don't take chances, always treat others as soft persimmons, thinking that people will take care of the overall situation in big occasions, calculate others everywhere, achieve their own goals, and finally ruin everything. At the wedding, the mother-in-law wants to calculate the gift money, and the woman takes off her wedding dress on the spot: this marriage is not married.
Li Popo is a person who never suffers in life. No matter what she does, she always thinks about how to maximize her own interests. Especially in the matter of her son's marriage, she has a lot of selfishness in her heart. In fact, although the Li family is the capital city, the family conditions in the city are really average, and even belong to the middle and lower classes. But in her heart, there is always an inexplicable sense of superiority, feeling that her son is particularly excellent, as if a girl is no matter how excellent, it is not bad to climb to her house. Therefore, she has very high requirements for her daughter-in-law.
In life, there will always be some people, like frogs at the bottom of a well, who like their nostrils facing the sky and are not humble at all. They think they are superior because of their geographical advantages. In their eyes, even if the family conditions are average, there is always a sense of superiority. They always feel that others are not as good as their own homes and look down on everyone. But fortunately, her son is not bad. Later, he met a rural girl, Luo Yan. Families in Luo Yan are not really rural areas. Their home is in a small county, and their parents also do some business. Their family conditions are not bad, and they will never be worse than the Li family. Even so, in Li's eyes, her county is rural, and no one can compare with her big city, so she felt that her son had suffered at that time.
Although Li Popo is not satisfied, she can't say what her son likes. However, it is precisely because of this idea that when her son was ready to get married, Li Popo began to make an abacus in her mind. Once a person has a sense of superiority in his heart, he will begin to pay special attention to his own efforts and haggle over everything for fear that he will suffer and the other party will get cheap. Before getting married, Li's mother-in-law called her to her side and said, "Actually, I'm not particularly satisfied that you are with my son, but my son likes it, and I can't help it." You know the situation at home. I also told you in advance that if we get married, we will prepare the house in advance, and the mortgage will be your own business in the future. As for the bride price, because we bought the house, we won't give it.