Legal analysis: deposit is a kind of customary etiquette in rural areas, and rural affairs are generally handled by the countryside itself. It is suggested to handle it as follows: 1. Negotiate with the woman yourself. 2. Ask the introducer to come forward and communicate with the other parent. 3. Friendly consultation between the two sides.

Legal basis: Civil Code of People's Republic of China (PRC).

Article 7 Civil subjects engaged in civil activities shall follow the principle of honesty and credit and abide by credit.

Article 8 Civil subjects engaged in civil activities shall not violate laws, public order and good customs.