After 70, there are old people in the world and little people in the world, all of whom say they are not tired. Who believes who says tired? What's the use?

After 70, I dare not look back. The shadow of youth is becoming more and more blurred. Where is youth?

After 70, single people can't find love, married people can't tell love, and divorced people can't tell love.

After 70, I said that I was old, that I died too early, that I was too embarrassed in love, and that I had to continue when I was tired. ......

After 70 years, the years are gone forever.

It seems that I was only eighteen yesterday, but I'm really over forty, and I'm going to be over fifty in a blink of an eye. Is that really the case? I can't believe it myself. Once so young, why do you have more white hair and wrinkles now?

Forty is not confusing, but there are too many mysteries in my heart to solve. How many people can promise to talk about ideals, love and the future?

Suddenly found that the body degenerated, often very tired. I was still very tired when I woke up the next day, and my body recovered slowly.

Also, those diseases that should belong to the elderly are quietly targeting people in their 70 s, and they are very surprised.

Are you looking for someone who understands you, but I can't find it. I hope there is a willing heart who will tell me everything and accompany me for a lifetime like a bosom friend. Make the mood better and love warmer.

Do you want to escape from your present life and find an exit to make everything easier? Or, alone, go wandering.

Did you hear someone calling uncle and aunt? Some people even called their grandparents, feeling that their hearts sank and they had come through thick and thin.

After 70, I am old and five years old.

The road behind me is so crooked that I dare not turn back.

Even a casual photo,

Will make yourself moved to tears.

The cultivation of a dutiful son is also fun and does not go against his will. -Book of Rites

The word filial piety has always held considerable weight in the hearts of China people. In ancient Wang Xiang, "sleeping on the ice for carp" was only because the stepmother wanted to eat fresh fish. Now, Meng Peijie, a girl from Shaanxi Province, supports her paralyzed foster mother and "carries her mother to study" 12 years.

All virtues put filial piety first, which can be said to be an essential concept that has been passed down for thousands of years. However, with the rapid development of the times, people's ideas are constantly changing. Today, can old people still enjoy their former happiness? China's post-1970s generation has now entered middle age. Let's see how they spend their lives.

Childhood after 70.

In fact, the generation after 70 has been suffering since childhood. It was an era of social poverty, and family planning had not yet been implemented. Under the call that labor is productivity, it used to be normal for families to struggle to have children, and it was normal for a family to have four or five children.

This is what happens after 70. Most of them have never had a chance to go to school. If you are older, you will drop out of school at the age of ten or eight, or farm, or jump in line to earn work points.

In short, the childhood of their generation was almost always accompanied by reprimands and even flogging. They were taught the purest traditional family values since childhood. The simplest truth is that they don't fight back, they don't fight back.

The prime of life after 70.

China's poverty and weakness did not change until the late 1970s and early 1980s. With the spring breeze of reform and opening up, the development of China began to advance by leaps and bounds, especially the rapid development of railway transportation. Convenient transportation makes cross-regional life more convenient, and capable rural people flock to cities to find a livelihood.

At that time, the whole thing woke up from the freezing and all walks of life were in ruins. Those who are lucky, have a little capital to do business, or find an "iron rice bowl" in the city can settle down in the city. Those who don't want to go far away can make a living by farming at home.

After 70, we have too much helplessness, because this age is embarrassing and we can't keep up: we are neither as close to retirement as after 60, nor as energetic as after 80.

However, there is no need to be sad after 70, because we have advantages that other age groups do not have. If you don't believe me, take a look.

Don't be sad, we are all at that time after forty.

As post-70s, we are all between 40 and 50 years old. This age group is actually the most "at that time". Why do you say that? Because we are younger after 70 than after 60; Compared with the post-80s generation, the post-70s Americans are more mature and rational.

As long as you pay close attention, you will find that the post-70 s generation, whether in the company or in the unit, belongs to the mainstay, and everyone's status is relatively high. So, in fact, we don't need to be sad, because our generation has an irreplaceable role.

I remember a friend once told me that the new boss of their company doesn't like older employees, so when recruiting new employees, the age is limited to under 35. My friend was frozen, and he thought his career was coming to an end. The newly recruited employees can't do the work at all, and some can't enter the working state at once; Some are self-reliant and arrogant; Have a plenty of fooling around, unreasonable.

When these young employees can't complete the tasks assigned by the leaders, the boss has to ask friends to "go out". My friend did the work well in a few days without saying anything, and it was done beautifully. Since then, the boss has to admit that age is also a kind of capital. Without the accumulation of age and experience, a lot of work can't be done simply.

Although we may not accept new things as fast as young people, we are willing to learn with an open mind. As long as we are given time, we can keep up with the pace of society. Therefore, we are fully confident that we can't let ourselves be eliminated by the fast-developing times.

In this way, after ten or twenty years of hard work, I saved some money, built several brick houses, got married and had children, and my life gradually improved. People in this era have received very traditional education since childhood. It is everyone's duty to serve parents and in-laws. Whoever doesn't take care of them will be beaten.

I remember listening to my aunt say that the first thing she does when she gets up every morning is to go to her in-laws' house and take out the urinal and throw it away. If she gets up late, it is her daughter-in-law who is incompetent.

At that time, there was a widely circulated saying called "daughter-in-law's face". In our opinion, it is really unreasonable, but this is what I learned from primary school after 70, and I can't complain about the abuse from my parents anyway. This is the truest helplessness and sadness of the post-70s generation.

Old after 70

Time flies. In the blink of an eye, I will be old after 70. They experienced great changes in society in the first half of their lives. For example, when they were young, they gave birth to many brothers and sisters in response to the call of the country. As a result, after they got married, they practiced family planning, and each family had at most two children. If they have more children, they will face huge fines.

In the past, this should be the age of children and grandchildren, but now there is no one around. In the face of the ever-changing new era, they are at a loss, as my father often said, "The times have changed, which is completely different from ours ..."

"It is not necessarily necessary to raise children to prevent old age."

With the implementation of the family planning policy, children born after 70, that is, children born after 90, have been regarded as the apple of their eye since childhood. After 90 years of growing up in this environment, they can study with peace of mind and enjoy a relaxed and happy life since childhood. With a little effort, these children can go to college and go out to see what they may not see in their lifetime. These children's horizons are much broader than their parents' and their hearts are more free.

Moreover, with the change of national policies, the post-90s generation basically left agriculture, which shows that there is no way out for them to find a job and settle down in the city without their own efforts or the help of their parents, which leads to their life pressure is actually much greater than their parents.

More and more rural people come out of the post-90s generation and come to big cities through the college entrance examination. It is a difficult transition process to find a job and work hard for many years until you settle down.

In this case, the traditional family concept is getting weaker and weaker in the fast-paced modern life. After 90, I worked hard in big cities, leaving my parents to live alone in my hometown.

Even if the traffic is developed and convenient now, they have to work several times harder than ordinary people in order to stay in big cities. They have no spare time and energy to enjoy their old age with their parents. There is a huge gap between their hometown and big cities, which they can never cross by building bridges and roads. This is called reality.

As the ancients said, loyalty and filial piety are not perfect from ancient times to the present. The repeated collision between traditional family concepts and modern social concepts makes every post-90s generation who pursues ideals and freedom feel sad and guilty, and also makes every lonely post-70s generation feel sad and helpless.

They are so lonely that they seem to be abandoned by their own children. Isn't the post-90s generation filial enough? Actually, it's not. Times are changing. People in the new era can only run forward with the pace of the new era, even if they are sad and helpless.

Compromise is the best solution.

In my opinion, in this case, the post-70s can only learn to compromise themselves. Since you can't change this social situation, try to change your mentality. Since all the elders and children have spent the first half of their lives, it is better to work hard for themselves and enjoy the second half of their lives.

Travel and vacation can enrich retirement. If you think these activities are too expensive, you can also play cards, raise flowers and plants, drink tea and play Tai Chi. Old age can also be very rich. The most important thing is to change your mentality. One's life should not be lived only for others.

The post-70s are a very special generation. They suddenly changed from the old and broken social road to the ever-changing new social road. Great contrast and conflict may make them fall to the ground, but they never compromise. They worked hard to build the motherland and present the best new society in China to us. They are a group of great and lonely people.

After 70, flash, flash, and you will be old.

After 70, remembering, remembering, I shed tears.

At the age of five, I especially miss the past. Every wind and rain, in that barren age, looks so beautiful. Together with the countryside lying quietly under the blue sky, it is full of beautiful breath.

I don't know what kind of mood it is, so let's remember it like this. Just as Lu Xun once had a small leap in love, the past years were engraved in his heart like a brand, which he will never forget.

Perhaps, we are old, perhaps, after 70 years of life and a lot, we realize that those once beautiful things are the most precious wealth in life.

1. Do you still remember the happy time in the fields with bare feet?

Short bungalows, winding paths, clear rivers and endless rice fields have built a poetic village. Cooking smoke adds a quiet beauty to this painting, and the barking of "Cleisthenes" cows adds a lot of artistic conception to this village.

In this picturesque country, we shuttle on the ridge road full of rice seedlings. At that time, we often ran barefoot and without shoes on the ridge of the field, and I don't know why we were so happy at that time. We only remember that the wind was warm at that time, and the rice fields at that time were full of a comfortable fragrance.

If you accidentally fall into the paddy field, you will get a mocking sneer. Everyone will laugh, but they will consciously replant the seedlings and start a new round of running.

In the fields, we have endless fun, not to mention the gurgling streams and the clear and transparent water surface. We can see how happy it is to swim with small fish and small water.

Needless to say, there are many golden peaks on the vegetable field, covered with vines of long beans. The golden yellow is really beautiful, and you can catch it with a light grasp.

Needless to say, at the end of the field, there is a grassy field, where you can roll and play cricket, or you can lie back quietly and watch the blue sky.

It's just that the golden rice fields have endless fun. There is a thick fragrant rice in autumn, and the golden color is dazzling.

Actually, we can't help adults much. Our task is to have fun.

It was still very hot during the autumn harvest. We still walk barefoot in the soft rice fields and feel an unparalleled coolness, which is the breath of the earth and the unique breath of that era.

Sometimes they follow adults to pick up ears of rice, and sometimes they give them to adults. The adults put the rice we handed them on the threshing machine, and the full rice grains kept entering the cabin. Although sweat dripped on their faces, they also felt particularly excited.

The happiest thing is to catch loach in the newly harvested rice fields. We are all experienced. According to the size of the hole, it can be judged whether it is eel or loach. We only catch loaches, because eels have less meat and look like snakes, and they are a little scared.

Digging along the hole, we soon found chubby loach in soft soil and water. Sometimes we can dig some fat loaches in a hole, which makes us very happy. At that time, meat could not be eaten, and loach was a good dish for dinner, so the most hope was to catch more loach.

In this way, the days are slowly spent in joy, without any troubles and worries.

That year, Na Yue, at that time, at that moment, the wind was light and the sun was warm. Years have written everything into the most precious life, leaving a lifetime of memories.