According to legend, the earliest wedding in China began with Fu's wedding and Nu Wa's matchmaking. Legend has it that in ancient times, floods flooded almost all people and animals in the world, leaving only Fuxi and Nuwa. Venus asked them to get married and have children, but they thought they were brother and sister and refused to agree. But if not, mankind will be extinct. They suggested that they could get married if the bamboo cut into many sections could be connected again. Later, bamboo was really connected and a lot of bamboo joints were planted. Still unwilling, the two proposed to roll down two sets of stone mills from two mountains, and if the stone mills can roll together, they can get married. But when the stone mill was put together again, they still refused to agree. Nu Wa has another idea. If Fuxi can catch up with herself, she can get married. As a result, Fuxi never caught up with Nuwa. A turtle taught Fuxi to catch up from the other side of the mountain in the opposite direction. Nu Wa was unprepared and was suddenly held in her arms by Fuxi. The two had to get married. This is the earliest wedding in China. Is the "gift giving" mentioned by the landlord "six gifts for marriage and employment"? According to legend, the earliest marriage and wedding in China began with the marriage with Nu Wa. As "Jing Hua Yuan Wai Ji" said: "There was no difference between men and women in ancient times, and Tai Hao began to set up a wedding ceremony, with the skin of the couple as the gift." Since then, the couple's skin (paired deerskin) has become one of the classic wedding gifts. After that, in addition to the "wedding ceremony", we must also "tell our parents"; During the Xia and Shang Dynasties, there were festivals of "before welcoming the court" and "before welcoming the court". The Zhou Dynasty was an era of etiquette. At that time, a complete set of wedding etiquette was gradually formed. There are detailed provisions in the Book of Rites, which combine the whole set of ceremonies into "Six Rites", which are called "Three Books and Six Rites" together with the three books (i.e. invitations, gift letters and wedding letters). Since then, the making of the six-ceremony wedding has been the template of the traditional wedding in China, and the marriage system of later dynasties has mostly changed on this basis.